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16 Tips for Flying With Kids

Traveling with children can be hard. Here, experienced flight attendants and parents share their secrets for flying with kids.

With long security lines, cramped airplane seating, and crowded waiting areas, flying isn't the most pleasant experience for anyone. But for families with young children, it can be downright stressful. As air travel gets more complicated with increased delays, tips for flying with kids are needed now more than ever.

Young children, especially, can have a tough time flying. They have yet to master self-regulation skills that allow them to be patient during delays. They are also more prone to ear discomfort and motion sickness accompanying air travel.

Thankfully, you can reduce family travel stress with proper preparation and planning. Whether you're jetting off to your relative's house or Disney World , check out these flight-attendant-approved strategies for flying with kids.

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1. Book an Early Morning Departure

If traveling with toddlers or young children, consider booking an early morning departure. These early flights give you the best chance of avoiding delays at takeoff and landing, says Patrick, one of the flight attendants interviewed.

Airports tend to be less crowded first thing in the morning. Once you get on the plane, "everyone is tired and just wants to nap—kids especially," says Patrick.

2. Save Your Upgrades for Toddler-Free Travel

Traveling in first class with kids can be more stressful than it's worth. A parent named Joanna recounts a travel day with her loud, lively toddler and getting berated by first-class seatmates for the entirety of the flight.

"It's not fair, but you're just going to get more empathy and support with kids in economy," adds another flight attendant.

3. Talk to Your Kids About What To Expect

"My experience is kids do so much better when they know what to expect," says Shireen, a mother of three from Australia who's traveled to the United States several times with her kids. She recommends watching kid-oriented videos on YouTube that go over the entire flight experience, from baggage check-in and ticketing to onboard etiquette and safety.

4. Dress in Layers and Skip Shoes With Laces

Whether you are changing climates or simply dealing with in-flight heat or air conditioning, you can and should be ready for drastically changing temperatures when traveling with kids. Wendy, a flight attendant and mom, suggests you dress your kids in comfortable layers—preferably without buttons, zippers, or anything that could prevent them from getting to the bathroom in time.

The same principle applies to shoes: Avoid laces and opt for slip-ons. "There's the added benefit of getting through airport screening that much faster," says Wendy.

5. Bring Surprises

When flying with a young child, bringing along a new toy that's wrapped to keep the surprise (and add to the experience!) has a few advantages:

• You can use the toy as an incentive to be a good listener and have patience during your journey.
• Promising the toy midway through the flight builds anticipation and helps distract anxious kids.
• Unwrapping a toy can be a fun activity in itself for children.
• The new plaything can create a novel activity to preoccupy a child during the flight.

6. Consider Using a Smaller Stroller

Getting through an airport without a stroller is unthinkable for some parents, so consider switching out your regular-size stroller for a small, compact umbrella stroller or travel stroller . Also, check your stroller at the gate before boarding—the crew will have it waiting for you when you get off the plane.

If you've got more than one little traveler with you, consider a kid harness that can connect you to your child, Wendy suggests. "I was so against them until I saw a woman with three young boys using them in baggage claim. It made so much sense," she says. "Flying is stressful enough. Do what you need to do to protect your kids and your sanity."

7. Pack Just Enough

Flight attendants urge parents to pack essentials for the flight . "Unfortunately, you can expect there to be zero food on a plane that would interest a kid," says flight attendant Lynn. "And we are so limited in what we can offer in terms of comfort items as well."

On the flip side, parents will struggle if they zealously overpack. "Usually, when it's one parent traveling with one or more kids, they'll bring way too much stuff in an attempt to keep their kids happy," Wendy says. "They forget they have to carry all that stuff off the plane with them, along with their kids."

8. Plan Your Packing List

To guard against overpacking while ensuring you don't forget anything critical, consider writing out a full packing list. Star or highlight those items that will need to be packed last minute (like the lovey your kiddo sleeps with or the tablet that's currently charging) so you have a checklist to consult one last time before heading out the door with your luggage.

Sample Airplane Packing List for Young Children

When packing your carry-on for the plane ride, use this list as a starting point:

• Comfort item : Pack one of your child's favorite comfort items in your carry-on for mid-flight snuggles.
• Sanitizer, wipes, pull-ups, and diapers (if needed) : You'll want these critical items within reach at all times during your travels. Consider packing at least one diaper per hour of travel.
• Electronic devices : Make sure that whatever device you're bringing is fully charged and ready to go—and don't forget the chargers for the flight back. Consider pre-loading the tablet or phone with your kids' favorite movies or shows for offline viewing.
• Kid-size headphones : Be sure to follow the basic rules of travel etiquette and pack comfy headphones your little one can wear while enjoying their favorite games or shows. Have more than one kid in tow? Consider investing in a splitter so both can enjoy the show with their own set of headphones.
• Art supplies : A small box of crayons and blank paper can go a long way when it comes to entertaining your toddler on a plane. Mix things up and pack some fun stickers to add to the excitement.
• Plastic bags : You never know when you'll need an extra bag for wet clothes, a dirty diaper, trash, or sick bellies.
• Travel sickness lollipops : There are many brands of lollipops that are specially formulated with tummy-soothing ingredients for kids who get motion sickness.
• Water bottle : Toss an empty clean water bottle into your bag to fill after you get through security. Just make sure that it's leakproof!
• Mess-free healthy snacks : Cheerios, pretzels, crackers, string cheese, and granola bars are good options for keeping little hands busy and bellies full.

9. Be Prepared for Security

When you pack, make sure items that need to be removed during security are easily reached. Keep in mind that traveling with snacks may mean extra scrutiny during the screening process.

10. Prepare for Air Pressure Changes

If your child has recently had an ear infection or a cold, get your health care provider's approval before flying. The change in cabin air pressure may cause ear pain for your toddler.

After passing through security, stock up on enough water for everyone to get through a possible delay and have enough left for the descent, which is often the most bothersome time for ear pressure discomfort. Have your kids drink some water during the last 30 to 45 minutes of your ride. Swallowing helps relieve pressure-change discomfort and hydrates, too.

11. By All Means, Use Pull-Ups

Your little one may have moved beyond pull-ups into big kid underwear, but pull-up diapers are a great resource when flying with a recently potty-trained toddler or young child. "I even use them on my 6-year-old," says Wendy, who adds that it's much less stressful than having to race to the bathroom or deal with an in-seat accident.

12. Show Some Appreciation

Flight attendants love to receive a small gratuity for dealing with toddlers. "Any kind of chocolate found in an airport handed over at boarding, does wonders," says Patrick. Of course, it will have zero effect on the random bad-tempered cabin crew member. But it's a nice gesture nonetheless, particularly when flying during the holidays when most flight attendants will be working and away from their own families.

"It will be so appreciated," he says. "And we will remember you and look out for you. And not only that, you'll probably score a free drink out of it."

13. Seat Kids Away From the Aisle

Aisle seats can be dangerous for toddlers and potentially give them a little too much freedom of movement. For example, little hands and feet can be bumped as people walk by and hot coffee and water may be just within reach as the food and beverage cart passes by.

If you can, seat your child in a window seat, which offers the benefit of a view and puts you between your toddler and any other passengers in your row.

14. Beware of Germs

Children tend to get sick a lot, but you can try to avoid any travel-related illness with some sanitary measures:

• Wipe everything from hands to tray tables with sanitizing wipes when you're getting settled in your seats.
• Don't send your kids to the bathroom without shoes. "The floor is a Petri dish," a flight attendant confides. "You're in the air, things jostle. That's not just water on the bathroom floor."
• Pack hand sanitizer and use it on your child's hands when they can't get to a bathroom to wash with soap and water.

15. Keep Your Composure

There's not much you can do to assuage that passenger who complains the moment your child sneezes or giggles. Just remember: As long as you're trying (and what parent isn't?), you've got almost everyone on your side.

"An adult having an issue with a screaming child is acting like a child as well," offers a flight attendant and mom named Patience. "Don't engage. Just worry about your own child."

16. Choose an Airline With Kid-Friendly Perks

There's nothing a family-friendly airline wants more than happy, occupied kiddos. As such, many leading carriers have all kinds of kid perks to offer their littlest travelers from a wide array of their favorite TV shows and movies to kid-approved headphones and snacks.

Before boarding, be sure to check in with the gate agent about whether the airline offers priority boarding for families with young children. Often airlines call special boarding for families so they can board a little early so you'll have time to settle in. Other great perks to look for are family lounges or airports with areas for kids to burn off some steam during layovers or before boarding.

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TSA tips on traveling with small children through a security checkpoint at Philadelphia International Airport

PHILADELPHIA - Traveling through a Transportation Security Administration (TSA) security checkpoint with an infant, toddler or small child can go smoothly when travelers know what to expect and prepare in advance. 

“If you’re traveling with your child, it helps to know what to expect before you get to the airport,” says Gerardo Spero, Transportation Security Administration (TSA) Federal Security Director for the airport. “That’s why it’s valuable to become familiar with the security procedures for screening small children and the various paraphernalia that is needed for children during their trip. We have modified screening procedures for children who are 12-years-old and younger.”

Screening of infants/toddlers/children

Parents/guardians should remove infants and children from strollers and car seats and carry them in their arms through the walk-through metal detector. Infants may be carried in a sling/carrier through the walk-through metal detector. Children will not be separated from their parent/guardian. Parents/guardians who are enrolled in TSA PreCheck® may bring their children with them through a TSA PreCheck® lane. Children 12 and under can leave their shoes, light jackets and headwear on during screening. Modified screening procedures are in place to reduce the likelihood of a pat-down on a child. Children under age 18 do not need to present ID at the travel document checking podium.

Traveling with liquid formula, breast milk, toddler drinks and baby/toddler food

Formula, breast milk, toddler drinks, and baby/toddler food (to include puree pouches) in quantities greater than 3.4 ounces or 100 milliliters are allowed in carry-on baggage and do not need to fit within a quart-sized bag. These items are considered medically necessary liquids. This also applies to breast milk and formula cooling accessories, such as ice packs, freezer packs, and gel packs (regardless of presence of breast milk). A child or infant does not need to be present or traveling with an adult for a traveler to bring breast milk, formula and/or related supplies onto their flight. Parents/guardians should inform the TSA officer at the beginning of the screening process that they are carrying formula, breast milk, toddler drinks, and baby/toddler food (to include puree pouches) in excess of 3.4 ounces. These items should be removed from a carry-on bag to be screened separately from other belongings. It’s smart to pack all of these items together in one area of a carry-on bag so they are quickly divested. TSA officers may need to test liquids for explosives or any possible concealed prohibited items. Parents will not be separated from their children at security checkpoints. Parents who are enrolled in TSA PreCheck® may bring their children with them in the TSA PreCheck® lane. (TSA photo) Although not required, to expedite the screening process, it is recommended that formula and breast milk be transported in clear, translucent bottles and not in plastic bags or pouches. Liquids in plastic bags or pouches may not be able to be screened by bottle liquid scanner technology units, you may be asked to open them (if feasible) for alternate screening such as explosive trace detection and vapor analysis for the presence of liquid explosives. Screening will never include placing anything into the medically necessary liquid. Ice packs, freezer packs, frozen gel packs and other accessories required to cool formula, breast milk, toddler drinks, and baby/toddler–regardless of the presence of breast milk–are also allowed in carry-ons, along with liquid-filled teethers. If these items are partially frozen or slushy, they are subject to the same screening as described above.

Screening of children’s items

Parents/guardians should place all carry-on baggage such as children's toys, bags and blankets on the X-ray belt for screening. Strollers, umbrella-strollers, baby carriers, car and booster seats as well as backpacks must also be screened by X-ray. Parents/guardians should place items in the stroller pockets or baskets, in a carry-on bag or on the X-ray belt for screening. Equipment that does not fit through the X-ray machine will undergo a visual/physical inspection by TSA officers.

Screening children with medical conditions, disabilities or mobility aids

Parents/guardians should inform the TSA officer if a child has a disability, medical condition or medical device, and advise the officer of the best way to relieve any concerns during the screening process. Parents/guardians should tell the TSA officer if a child is able to walk through the metal detector or needs to be carried through the metal detector by the parent/guardian. Parents/guardians may carry their child to ease the screening process. The TSA officer will not remove a child from his/her mobility aid, wheelchair or scooter. Request assistance. TSA Cares is a helpline to assist travelers with disabilities and medical conditions. Call TSA Cares 72 hours prior to traveling with questions about screening policies, procedures and what to expect at the security checkpoint. Parents/guardians may also call to request assistance at the checkpoint. Travelers requiring special accommodations or concerned about the security screening process at the airport may request assistance by contacting TSA Cares online at http://www.tsa.gov/contact-center/form/cares or by phone at (855) 787-2227 or federal relay 711.

Features for families at Philadelphia International Airport

Philadelphia International Airport supports mothers who are breast feeding and the airport has a variety of options for nursing a child or pumping breast milk in the airport. Four Mamava Suites are located post-security in Terminals A-West, between Terminals B and C, between Terminals D and E and Terminal F. Additionally, Minute Suites are located on the secure-side walkway between Terminals B and A-East. Traveling mothers also can take advantage of using one of the airport’s 42 companion care or family restrooms, which are equipped with electrical outlets and are located both pre-security and on the secure side of the TSA checkpoint throughout the airport, and PHL’s first built-in lactation suite in the B/C food court.

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11 Essential Tips For Flying With A Toddler

Everything a parent needs to know to make that flight a whole lot less hellish.

Flying with a toddler presents an entirely different set of challenges than flying with a baby . And it’s due mostly to mobility. Toddlers don’t like to sit still. They’re also more headstrong, prone to meltdowns, and have fleeting attention spans. But the stress of traveling with a toddler doesn’t have to end with your forsaking air travel until they’re teenagers. It just takes some proper planning, smart packing , and a little mental preparation.

For the latest guidance on traveling with babies and young children during COVID, please visit the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention website .

To help, Fatherly compiled top tips for flying with a toddler. Here’s what we recommend:

1. Get To The Airport Early

When it comes to flying with kids, some argue against arriving at the airport too early because it means entertaining them for a longer stretch of time outside the comforts of home. The simple fact remains, though: airport stress is dictated by your departure time. And the less time you give yourself to go from the parking garage to the gate ⏤ especially with a toddler in tow ⏤ the more stress you will create. Traveling with a toddler, especially when they’re walking, takes significantly more time than traveling on your own. Arriving 90 minutes to two hours before your flight ensures no matter how long the check-in or TSA lines are, or how slowly they’re moving, you’ll never have to sweat missing your flight. Even better, it gives you a chance to regroup ⏤ order lunch, feed the kid, buy a book you won’t be able to read ⏤ when you get inside the terminal.

2. Split Up When You Board

While all airlines allow parents with children to board first, it’s not always the smartest move. Remember, it usually takes a half-hour for everybody else to board and the plane to start moving ⏤ that’s a lot of time stuck in your seat with a restless 3-year-old. The better strategy is to have one parent board the flight early to stow the carry-ons, gate-check the stroller/car seat, and, if you’re concerned about germs, disinfect the armrests and tray tables. Meanwhile, the other parent walks/entertains the kid in the terminal until everybody is on board, and then boards last.

3. If They’re Still Under 2, Consider Buying Them A Seat

Obviously, this decision depends on one’s finances, but if you’ve got the money to buy an extra seat ⏤ book it. Being able to give a toddler their own space, rather than bouncing them on your lap for three hours, is a game-changer. There’s a reason some parents oppose the idea of “Lap Toddlers” so much ⏤ sure it’s cheaper, but man can it be a nightmare if they won’t sit still.

Two other things: First, if you do purchase a separate seat but don’t elect to bring the car seat on board, consider a CARES harness if you’re concerned about safety. Designed for kids one and up who weigh between 22 and 44 pounds, the FAA-approved harness is both easy to set up and throw in your carry-on bag. And second, if the child is approaching that 2-year-old cutoff but still flying as an infant in arms, don’t forget to bring a copy of their birth certificate or other proof of age. You never know when you might run into a gate agent who’s convinced your giant kid is really 3-years-old, and you’re trying to steal a free flight.

4. Book A Window And An Aisle Seat

If you do go with the lap option, book the aisle and window seats and leave the middle one open. As middle seats are the last to be filled, this increases your odds of scoring your toddler a seat without paying. Worst case scenario, if somebody is sitting there, you can simply offer to trade them the more desirable window seat. Whatever you do, though, don’t give up that aisle seat. You’re going to want easy access to the bathroom and the ability to walk around with your kid.

5. Don’t Fly Too Late In The Day

Ever hung out with a 2-year-old at 5 p.m. on an afternoon when they didn’t get a nap? It’s not a pleasant experience. It may not always work, and your kid may be too distracted to sleep regardless of what time you take off, but booking flights that coincide with their nap schedule at least give you better odds for a smoother trip. Or, if you can’t fly when they usually sleep, try to plan the trip during periods of the day when you know they’re happiest ⏤ for a lot of kids, that’s in the morning. If you do choose a late-day flight, do your best to make sure they get a nap before heading to the airport.

6. Gift Wrap Cheap Toys

Obviously, you don’t want to bring an entire toy box but your main objective while flying with a toddler is to keep them occupied. And the more games, toys, or books you bring along, the easier your job will be. We’ve had great luck with the Water Wow! coloring books , Melissa & Dave’s Reusable Sticker Books, and wax Wikki Sticks, but every kid has their favorites. In addition to toys they already know and love, take a trip to the dollar store before your flight and stock up on cheap stuff you don’t mind losing or accidentally leaving on the plane. And then wrap them individually in wrapping paper like it was Christmas Eve. Whenever your child gets restless during the flight, break out a new toy and help them unwrap it. Let them play with the paper, then the actual toy, and when the child tires of both, well, there’s always Cheerios.

7. Kiss Screen-Time Restrictions (Temporarily) Goodbye

No matter how opposed you are to screen time under normal circumstances, flying is not the time to stick to your principles. It’s not. I’ve tried, and it was awful. That doesn’t mean you have to hand your 18-month-old an iPad loaded with every season of Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood as soon as the flight takes off, but some screen time can come in handy when attention spans start to wane. A few hours staring at a phone or tablet isn’t going to permanently damage your kid’s brain. Depending on how long the flight, be sure to download a movie or two, episodes of their favorite television shows, and some digital kid’s books before you leave the house ⏤ just in case you don’t have access to the internet on the flight. And, more importantly, for everybody’s sake: Buy a trusted pair of child headphones and test them out before you go.

8. Download Audio Books

Even better than apps, movies, or TV shows, download their favorite books in audio form. That way their minds stay engaged but they aren’t mesmerized by a screen the entire time. You can get everything from Fancy Nancy and Curious George to Pinkalicious & Peterrific and Cat in the Hat on Amazon’s Audible or from the local library using the OverDrive or Libby App.

9. Use Food As An Activity

For toddlers, eating food on a plane can be an all-consuming activity on par with watching Paw Patrol . If your kid is tired of listening to books or playing games, break out the crackers and let them concentrate on eating for a bit. Will Gold Fish get everywhere? Maybe. But it beats a bored toddler melting down and a section full of angry passengers. Bagels are one of the best in-flight foods for toddlers because it takes them forever to finish one. We often bring an entire bag.

Two other things to remember: Toddler’s ears can pop just as much as a baby’s, so snacks during takeoff and landing are helpful. And second, don’t forget that liquids and pouches still have to comply with TSA’s three-ounce regulations. We’ve thrown away many a good container of yogurt after forgetting it was too big to get through security.

10. Play Games, Lots of Games

A lot of parents are so quick to plug their kids in that they neglect to take advantage of their surroundings for entertainment. From flight attendants and carry-on luggage to cartoon safety cards and tiny plastic airline wings, airplanes are packed with stimuli around which to create games and keep kids occupied. A couple of fun games include “I Spy When I Fly” and “No Vacancy,” in which older toddlers keep their eyes on the bathrooms and try to guess which will be vacant first. Here are a few more airplane games, as well as fun airport games to keep kids entertained in the terminal before you ever even board the plane.

11. Have A Plan Of Attack: Food, Books, Toys, iPad…

No matter what you pack for entertainment, have a plan coming in ⏤ and expect to vary activities pretty quickly. Maybe start with a snack at takeoff before moving on to some games, a little reading, and unwrapping a new toy. Keep your powder dry though when it comes to the tablet or phone. Because you know it will almost instantly quiet any ornery toddler, you’d be well advised to resist breaking it out until mid-flight, after exhausting as many other activities as can hold their attention.

This article was originally published on Aug. 30, 2018

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15 Tips to (Actually) Enjoy Flying With Toddlers

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Traveling with my toddlers has been one of the biggest sources of joy (and frustration) in my life. As much as I love traveling on my own, there's something special about experiencing destinations, attractions, food and more through their eyes.

To encourage more families to travel with their children, we created this guide on how to fly with toddlers. The goal is to make travel easier so you'll go on more trips and create more lifelong memories.

1. Get passports for everyone

If you're traveling internationally, remember that everyone needs a passport — even toddlers and babies. Getting a passport can take a while , so be sure to apply for your child's passport right away. Currently, posted passport processing times are as follows:

Routine processing: Six to eight weeks.

Expedited processing: Two to three weeks.

In extreme situations, you may be able to receive a same-day passport within three to five days of travel.

The U.S. Department of State has a handy tool that shows where you can apply in person for a passport based on your ZIP code. Both parents or guardians must be present when applying for a passport for children under 16 years.

Because kids grow and change quickly, children's passports are good for only five years and can't be renewed. This time frame is much shorter than the 10 years that adults enjoy with their passports.

» Learn more: How to get a passport

2. Consider TSA PreCheck or Global Entry

TSA PreCheck and Global Entry are two examples of Trusted Traveler programs that allow flyers to move through airport security more quickly.

Children 12 and under can use the TSA PreCheck lanes when traveling with an eligible parent or guardian. Children 13-17 can as well but must have the TSA PreCheck icon on their boarding pass.

Global Entry, however, requires that every traveler be signed up, even young children. This nuance tripped us up when we were traveling home from Mexico when our daughter was 6 months old. Although it was an innocent mistake, the customs agent wasn't too forgiving.

TSA PreCheck is $78 and Global Entry is $100, and both memberships are good for five years. Global Entry includes TSA PreCheck and is highly recommended if it's possible that you'll travel internationally in the next five years. The time savings at customs is well worth the $22 price difference. Numerous travel credit cards reimburse cardholders for TSA PreCheck or Global Entry application fees. If you have multiple cards with this benefit, you can use a different card to pay for each of your family member's application fees.

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» Learn more: A guide to TSA PreCheck with family

3. Have a notarized letter for solo-parent travel

If one parent is traveling with your toddler while the other is staying home, it's important to get a notarized letter that confirms the non-traveling parent's permission. I travel frequently with my kids while my wife is at her 9-to-5 job, and this document has come up frequently on international trips.

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4. Download apps and shows, charge devices

Before your trip, charge all of your electronic devices, including tablets, portable chargers and cameras. Many streaming services, like Netflix, Amazon Prime and Disney+, allow you to download movies and TV shows to watch when you're away from Wi-Fi.

Having a charged-up device and multiple hours of entertainment is a sure way to keep your toddler happy while flying.

Many airlines offer hundreds of movies, TV shows and songs free of charge. However, some airlines have removed seatback devices and rely on personal devices instead to provide this entertainment. Be aware that you may need to download the airline's app ahead of time to use these features.

If onboard entertainment is a key differentiator when flying with toddlers, consider booking tickets with JetBlue Airways, Delta Air Lines or Southwest Airlines — our top three picks in our analysis of the best airlines for in-flight entertainment .

» Learn more: The NerdWallet guide to in-flight entertainment, broken down by airline

5. Pack smart

Packing for adults and children can be complicated. Toddlers often need multiple changes of clothes every day due to spills, accidents and changes in weather. Packing cubes help to compress clothing to save space, and it may help to have a dedicated suitcase for each child.

When choosing where to stay, consider options that have on-site laundry facilities. This way, you can reduce how much you need to pack, as you can wash clothes midway through the trip.

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6. Bring a car seat — or rent one

Many parents have car seats that they know and love, so they're inclined to bring them along. Car seats offer a safer in-flight seat for the child and one that they're familiar with, which can help reduce the stress of flying. However, car seats are bulky, so it may not be worth the effort of bringing them on board.

If you want to check your car seat instead, get a car-seat bag. It will protect your car seat from dirt, moisture and damage. Plus, you can often fit additional diapers, clothing or toys in the space where your child sits.

For parents who are renting a car at their destination, consider renting a car seat from the rental car company. If you're a AAA member, you get one free car seat or booster from Hertz, Dollar or Thrifty with each rental. Once your child graduates to a booster seat, compact, adjustable car seats from companies like Mifold can also be a good option.

7. Consider shipping items to your destination

While it can be an added expense, shipping some items makes life easier while traveling — especially if you're going to be away for a few weeks. Items that are disposable and bulky but lightweight make the most sense to ship, but any effort to lighten your airport load can be useful. Ideas include diapers, wipes and snacks, or heavy coats and shoes.

Before shipping, contact your hotel, vacation rental or other accommodation to make sure it can hold items until your arrival.

8. Seek out playgrounds inside the airport terminal

As parents, we know that our toddlers have tons of energy, which can spell trouble when they're sitting in a metal tube at 30,000 feet for hours at a time. Many airports have kids' play areas so your toddlers can burn some energy and be ready for a nice nap during the flight.

If there aren't any playgrounds at your airport, take your toddler for a long walk. My kids loved the moving sidewalks when they were younger (and sometimes even now). Just be respectful of others who are using the area to get to their flight or leave the airport.

9. Head to airport lounges for snacks

Airport lounges are a great way to spend time before your flight when flying with toddlers. There are several credit cards with complimentary or discounted lounge access . And many include complimentary admission for up to two or more guests or family members.

Inside the lounge, there are usually free drinks, snacks, Wi-Fi and other perks. Some lounges even have dedicated kids' areas. Keep in mind that many travelers are there on business or just want to relax, so make sure your children are on their best behavior.

10. Hit the bathroom before boarding

It seems like Murphy's law that as soon as the plane starts to taxi, one of my kids announces (often, loudly) that they need to use the potty. This creates the uncomfortable choice between a glaring flight attendant and a possible accident on the seat.

To avoid this scenario, find out what time your flight starts boarding and use the restroom 15 minutes before then.

11. Keep their favorites handy in a small carry-on

Even when we check luggage, we bring backpacks for each of our kids that are stuffed with their favorite toys, games, books and snacks. It's a good way to keep them occupied — and their bellies full.

Having a strategically packed, lightweight carry-on also helps us avoid paying sky-high prices (literally and figuratively) on snacks when flying with toddlers.

12. Have a plan for ear pressure

Often, babies and toddlers have problems with ear pressure on takeoff and landing. This is partly because they don't realize the need to swallow to relieve this pressure. Breastfeeding, drinking from a bottle or sucking on a pacifier can help them with this process. I've also found EarPlanes to be an effective tool for regulating ear pressure for our family.

13. Indulge them

While parents often have rules about "TV time" and food for their children, when in the air, it's OK to bend those rules. The last thing you — or your fellow passengers — want is a screaming or crying toddler who isn't getting to watch yet another episode of "Team Umizoomi" or "Bubble Guppies."

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14. be prepared to carry them off the plane.

Traveling takes a lot out of everyone. Some toddlers are energized and ready to go the moment they reach the terminal, but most are tired from the process. As such, there's a strong possibility that your kid will need to be carried off the plane.

To keep your hands free(r) when traveling with a toddler, consider checking all bags beyond any strategically packed, small carry-ons. That way, you'll have one less thing to carry — or forget — when deplaning.

Many airline credit cards waive checked bag fees for the first bag of each passenger.

15. Involve them in the planning

Although most toddlers can't read, they can still be involved in planning your family's daily activities. Give them some options and let them select what your family does. Or plan some free time in your schedule and let them take the lead.

They'll love "being in charge" — and you never know where they'll take you. How's that for adventure?

How to travel with a toddler, recapped

Flying with a 2-year-old or other toddler-aged kiddos can be challenging, but also highly rewarding. It takes extra time to pack and plan your trip, but you'll get to experience both new destinations and some of your old favorites through the eyes of a child.

Don't wait to travel until they get old enough to remember the trip. While your toddler may not remember anything, they'll still enjoy being in the moment. You'll have memories that last a lifetime, and you can always take pictures and videos to share as they get older.

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Survival Tips for Air Travel with an Infant or Toddler

 TripSavvy /  Emily Roberts

Air travel is stressful enough when you're traveling alone, especially during busy flight times. And that stress is doubled when traveling with an infant or toddler, as you worry about checking in, passing through airport security, navigating your way to your gate and finally getting on your flight. But you can get through the process with flying colors if you create a plan of attack in advance of your flight. 

Top Tips for Flying With a Baby or Toddler

Book a separate ticket for your child, even though they can fly free from birth to age two. Do this for your comfort and the safety of the child. And ensure that your child is traveling in an FAA-approved car seat or you may be forced to check the seat. Make sure you read up on your airline's car seat policy before you fly.

When booking your ticket, use seat maps to choose your seats right away, then put in your note that you're traveling with an infant or a toddler. Although the bulkhead seat can have more space, the back of the airplane is better, because lavatories are easier to access, there's more overhead bin space when you board and it's more likely to have vacant seats.

Spend the money to check your luggage so you're not carrying as much on your flight. And check out some tips to cut back on baggage fees . Finally, print out your boarding passes at home so all you have to do is check your bags.

Be prepared for possible flight delays or even cancellations by having extra diapers, wipes, bottles, powdered formula and extra clothes. You should also have books, toys, coloring sets and snacks .

Once you get to the airport, you will have to go through a Transportation Security Administration (TSA) checkpoint. Before getting there, read the TSA's list of approved items that can go past security. Medically required liquids, such as baby formula and food, breast milk and medications are exempt from the 3.4-ounce restrictions for a flight. While you don't have to put these liquids in a zip-top bag, you must tell a Transportation Security Officer that you have medically necessary liquids at the beginning of the screening checkpoint process. These liquids will be subjected to additional screening that could include being asked to open the container. 

You will likely have to take the child through the screening machine out of a stroller and carrier, so carry the baby in your arms. As you head to the gate area, take note of the nearest restroom should you need to take care of a baby or toddler emergency before boarding the flight. Get to your gate early and take advantage of pre-boarding so that you and the child can get settled before the masses begin to board.

Ask the gate agent to gate-check your stroller or non-certified car seat before boarding so that it will be waiting for you when you land. Be aware that some checked items, such as car seats or large strollers, may arrive at an oversized or special luggage section separate from regular luggage. If you are missing any of your luggage, check there first.

If you brought a stroller and checked it at the gate you may as well take your time getting off the aircraft, since it needs to be retrieved by a baggage handler and brought up to the door of the aircraft. This takes time, so rather than disturb your baby or toddler even more, wait until the crowd is off the plane and your stroller may already be waiting for you.

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10 Tips for Traveling on a Plane With a Toddler

By: Devon Kuntzman, PCC     Published: October 31, 2023    Updated: June 24, 2024

Traveling can be stressful, especially with toddlers! And if you’re a parent of a toddler, then you know just how the idea of traveling on a plane with a toddler can feel daunting. Yes, travel in general can be so worthwhile, filled with memories and unforgettable experiences. But the logistics of traveling with toddlers on a plane can be filled with lots of big emotions – for both parents and toddlers! Today I’m sharing all of my best advised effective and practical tips for flying with toddlers to make your experience through the airport and airplane as smooth as possible!

10 tips for traveling on a plane with a toddler

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From the never-ending packing lists to boarding a big plane with lots of new people and different sounds, just about everything in regard to traveling with toddlers can feel overwhelming. But with a little extra prep work and planning ahead, traveling with toddlers on a plane can be simplified so you feel more prepared and your toddler feels more at ease.

Follow these 10 essential tips for traveling on an airplane with your toddler.

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Book direct flights if possible

Even without toddlers, traveling on a direct flight is simply better. So if you’re flying with young children, and have the option, choose to book direct flights to shorten the travel time and minimize the risk of travel disruption.  

Take advantage of pre-boarding wisely

Some airlines will offer pre-boarding for families with children ages two and under, while other airlines are more vague with pre-boarding options for small children. If you are traveling with another adult…divide and conquer! While you stay behind and let your little kids burn off some preflight energy, have the other adult board the plane and find your seats, wipe down the tray tables and seats with sanitizing wipes , secure overhead storage for carry-ons, and install the car seat. 

Avoid the aisle seat 

Make sure to have your toddler sit in the window seat. In general, this is a safer option as it will give them a bit more freedom to move without risking running down the aisle or interfering with a service cart or flight attendants. Yes, it can feel awkward to ask a stranger to get up if you and your toddler need to get to the bathroom, but people are generally understanding. 

Book a seat for your toddler 

If your toddler is less than two years old and it’s in your budget, book an extra seat for your toddler. You won’t regret it. Having the extra space will be appreciated by both you and your child. While flying is overall very safe, severe turbulence is becoming more common due to climate change. For this reason, especially, it is safest for your toddler to be in a toddler car seat in their own seat. Check your car seat to see if it is FAA-approved and if it will fit in an airplane seat. For older kids, this airplane harness is a great way to offer added seat belt safety! 

Pack your diaper bag efficiently using zippered bags for easy access

I absolutely love using these clear bags for toys so that toddlers can see their options easily. I also love using these zippered bags for other items like granola bars and snack pouches.

Pack an extra change of clothes 

For parents and kids – we know that spills happen. Luggage gets lost. Having extra clothes easily accessible can be a lifesaver and save you a lot of stress. Focus on packing comfortable clothes and dressing in layers. Never hesitate to bring your kids to the airport in their pajamas during early morning or late night flights.  

Bring all the snacks!

Toddlers are constantly growing (and eating)! And there’s no better way to keep a toddler happy and occupied with a snack. So pack all of their favorites. You can never pack enough options, which is why I love these snack spinners that will keep their bellies full and their minds busy.

Set realistic and reasonable expectations

Travel days are tough for adults and toddlers. Especially because traveling usually involves upside-down schedules and routines being thrown off which results in a lack of sleep. Your toddler may become more easily dysregulated due to overstimulation, a missed nap, and simply not being at home. This can mean more whining and tantrums. Don’t worry about onlookers – stay present and focus on yourself and your child.  

Be flexible with schedules

Keep the routine but don’t hold yourself to a strict schedule. For example, bring your chid’s special lovey and sound machine for naps but don’t expect your child to nap at the same time they would at home. Routines can be soothing for toddlers because they create a sense of safety through predictability. Anticipate that your toddler might have more screen time than usual, and that’s just fine.  

Keep in mind that flying on an airplane with your toddler is temporary. If you find yourself struggling, visualize arriving on your vacation or back in the comfort of your own home. Think about how good it will feel to get there. Hold onto these visualizations and keep bringing them to the forefront of your mind if things get tough. Remember, you and your toddler are human. So give yourself and your toddler some grace on travel days! 

Whether you’re traveling with toddlers in the car on a road trip or flying on an airplane, getting to your destination can be made easier and smoother with all of my favorite toddler travel essentials ! 

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Potty Seat Reducer

This potty seat reducer folds up and comes with its own travel bag that you can toss right inside of your diaper bag. Potty seat reducers make the toilet seat smaller and safer for your toddler, which is why they are essential for setting your toddler up for success in public (or airplane) restrooms.

Spill-Proof Snack Cup

Avoid losing those precious snacks all over the airplane with this one-piece silicone spill-proof snack cup.

Spill-Proof Sippy Cup 

No need to worry about your child’s water or milk getting spilled with these no-spill sippy cups.

Food Catching Bibs

Keep your toddler’s clothes clean from baby food with these silicone food-catching bibs that catch all the snack crumbs. They are easy to wipe off and roll up for travel so you can toss them right into your diaper bag.

Travel Baby Carrier

We love a good baby carrier! Having a supportive carrier that travels easily is essential to freeing up your hands and making your trip through the airport more comfortable for you and your toddler. 

Keep your toddler busy and having fun with this reusable mess-free painting activity that is perfect to do right on the airplane tray tables.

Reusable Sticker Books

Stickers are a toddler’s best friend! These reusable sticker activity books are a great way for your child to practice fine motor skills while traveling.

Travel Busy Board

Busy boards are a wonderful way to keep your toddler busy with endless options to practice many different types of fine motor development. This busy board zips right up for travel, giving your toddler lots of ways to explore and play on the go.

Travel stroller

Having a great travel stroller is essential to keeping your toddler comfortable and contained plus your hands-free. My personal favorite is the BABYZEN YOYO2 Stroller because it fits easily in most overhead compartments. 

Suction Cup Spinners

This fun (and affordable) little suction cup spinner travel toys stick to the window or tray table! My personal favorite suction cup spinners are made of high-quality silicone, which makes them great for teething too! 

If you’re looking for more travel must-haves, check out my favorite Plane Travel Toys & Essentials for toddlers to help make flying more tolerable for you and your toddler.

Whether you have a toddler or not, traveling can be stressful and overwhelming. But with a little prep work and a lot of patience, you can do this!

Regardless of whether you’re gearing up for your first flight with your toddler or looking to fine-tune your travel experience based on your last flight with your kids, I am here for you! If you’re looking for more guidance and support as you navigate all things toddlerhood, don’t miss out on any of the Transforming Toddlerhood Parenting Classes to help you out along the way!

There are many things that make traveling with a toddler on a plane challenging. Changes in routine, sleep schedules, and the overstimulation of new places, faces, and sounds all contribute to the challenges of traveling with a toddler on an airplane.

Doing some prep work to feel prepared for flying with a toddler is so important! One of the best ways to stay organized when traveling on a plane is to pack your travel essentials in clear, zippered bags so you can see your items and belongings for quick and easy access.

Snacks, toys, and extra clothes are all basic essentials to pack for travel on a plane. Oh, and more snacks!

You can bring your diaper bag, baby food, snacks, a travel stroller, and carseat through airport security.

You can travel with a car seat by simply either checking it at the counter or gate, but make sure it’s in a travel bag for protection. If your child has their own seat assignment, you can fasten them right into their toddler car seat during the flight (which is the most preferred and safest option for flying), as long as it is FAA-approved and fits in an airplane seat.

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Traveling with children can add an extra layer of complexity to a trip, but planning ahead will help things go as smoothly as possible. With limited space and hours to fill, flying can be particularly tricky. That's why I (a mother of two little ones) always make sure to pack something fun to do, watch, and eat. I'll also bring options to optimize naps, which doesn't always happen, but a mom can dream.

After gathering pointers from a parenting expert and a seasoned flight attendant, I rounded up all the essentials and nice-to-haves when flying with kids. From screen time, snack time, and sit-still activities to just-in-case items and products to make parents' lives easier, here's what to pack for the flight.

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"Airplanes have very little for kids' entertainment," says Jessica Hoffman, a flight attendant of 18 years. For the sake of convenience, she recommends at least some screen time and other activities that'll capture children's attention. Here's what we recommend for portable tech, games, and other things to keep them busy, still, and (mostly) quiet.

Best Tablet

Amazon fire hd 10 kids pro tablet.

"Downloading movies and shows to be watched on a screen with headphones is usually the easiest," says Hoffman. "Flying is a treat, and screen time falls into that." If you don't already have a designated tablet for your child, we suggest the Amazon Fire HD 10 Kids Pro. It's got a 13-hour battery life, 32 gigs of storage space, and comes with a one-year subscription to Amazon Kids+, which includes digital books, games, and videos.

Best Media Stand

Honsky thumbs-up phone stand.

You'll want to have some headphones at the ready. This lightweight, cordless set from JBL is fit for a child's head, with plush ear cushions and a soft headband. It's easy to pair with a phone or tablet through Bluetooth, too. "Plan ahead — practice with headphones if your kids aren't used to wearing them," Hoffman recommends.

Travofun Magnetic Checkers & Tic-Tac-Toe

I like small magnetic board games because they take up minimal space and can be played anywhere, even without a flat surface, since the pieces stick to the board. This one is two games in one. You'll get tic-tac-toe, which younger kiddos can get the hang of pretty quickly, and checkers, which is great for slightly older kids and parents who want to play, too.

Best Coloring Books

Melissa & doug on the go water wow reusable color with water pad.

Parenting expert Megan Winokur is a fan of coloring books when flying with kids. I suggest this one from the tried-and-true toy brand Melissa & Doug. Each mini pad has four reusable pages and a refillable water pen. When the wet brush swipes onto the pages, colors appear. When it dries, the colors "erase" so the pictures can be "painted" again. Most importantly, it's a totally mess-free activity.

Best Activity Book

Skillmatics dot it animals art activity.

Winokur says sticker books are always a hit when flying with her kids. "Dot It sticker art is one of our favorites," she says. "It comes with over 500 easy-peel stickers and eight pictures to create." There are different themes, too, like space, dinosaurs, princesses, and dress-up.

Boxgear LED Telescopic Suction Cup Giraffe Toy

The best toys to bring on an airplane are small and simple yet entertaining and interactive. For instance, these bendy giraffes are under six inches tall, and the set of four weighs less than half a pound. They itch the sensory scratch and fidget urge with telescopic arms, stretchable necks, and suction feet that attach to any flat surface.

Aside from small bags of peanuts, pretzels, and sometimes cookies, airlines don't usually have kid-friendly snacks. You'll definitely want to pack something for your children to eat and drink (or drink out of) on the plane while keeping mess prevention in mind. "​​Less mess is always best!" says Hoffman.

Best Water Bottle

Simple modern summit kids water bottle with straw lid.

For flights, Winokur recommends bringing a reusable water bottle like this one from Simple Modern. The kid-size design holds 12 to 14 ounces of liquid and fits in most cup holders. It's also lightweight, durable, dishwasher safe, BPA-free, and (crucially) leakproof when the straw-nozzle is in the closed position.

Best Snack Holder

Gobe kids large snack spinner.

"There are tons of fun 'snackle box' or snack spinner options out there that you can fill with your favorite snacks," offers Winokur. "This will keep [kids] entertained and stocked up for the flight while also saving some space in your bag." The GoBe Kids Original Snack Spinner comes in two sizes, each with five little compartments that can hold mini portions of things like nuts, Goldfish crackers, cheese cubes, or apple slices. After suctioning it to a tray table, your child can press the middle button to spin the wheel and choose a new snack.

Annie's Homegrown Organic Snack Variety Pack

The best kids' snacks for plane rides depend on the child. But to keep children happy, full, and satisfied, snacks might be a cross between health food and junk food — or “healthy junk food,” if you will. For example, these little bags of crackers and grahams from Annie’s are organic, free of corn syrup, and made with (some) whole grains. And besides the inevitable crumbs, they're not terribly messy.

YumEarth Organic Lollipops

You're wise to also bring a treat to prevent meltdowns and reward good behavior — sitting still for multiple hours is a challenge for many children. I often go with lollipops because they last longer than most other candy and take up negligible space. YumEarth Organic Pops are naturally flavored and colored, and they're flat, so you can stash them in any pocket.

Every parent knows that when kids don't get the rest they need, family outings can quickly go off the rails. Long flights and changing time zones can throw a wrench in things, but with some planning — and, let's be honest, a bit of luck — you might manage to get a nap or at least quiet time in.

"I also let my kids each bring a small stuffed animal to help them feel more at home," adds Winokur.

Best Blanket and Pillow Set

Giapow travel blanket and pillow.

Airplanes can be chilly and generally don't have a soft space to lay one's head. You might consider bringing a travel pillow and blanket to make your child's seat as plush, cozy, and warm as possible. This set comes with a kid-size throw that stuffs into the pillow, which is just 16 x 14 inches. It can fit in a carry-on or be a kid's personal item .

Best Kids' Neck Pillow

Infanzia kids travel neck pillow.

Another option is to get your child a neck pillow (which may or may not count as a personal item, depending on the airline ). This highly rated option has lots of support around the sides and chin to prevent kids' necks from falling forward and keep them comfy if they doze off while sitting upright. The removable cover is also conveniently machine-washable.

Best Sound Machine

Snooz go travel white noise sound machine.

"We never leave home without our white noise machine," says Winokur. "It helps everyone sleep better, especially when you may be sharing a hotel room as a family." The cordless, rechargeable Snooz Go is great for flights. It's less than four inches in diameter and can connect to headphones via Bluetooth.

There are also a few wellness and hygiene products you'll want to add to your carry-on packing list. These will help keep surfaces, hands, and faces clean while covering you in the event of owies and popping ears from cabin pressure.

Best Sanitizing Wipes

The honest company sanitizing alcohol wipes.

These sanitizing wipes can be used to disinfect tray tables, clean armrests, and de-germ kids' hands when a proper sink and soap aren't available. But since they're made with alcohol, they shouldn't be used to clean faces or for diaper changes.

Best Wet Wipes

Nolla flushable wipes travel packs.

These skin-friendly wet wipes are fragrance free and super gentle, so you can use them not only to clean kids' hands but also their faces in a pinch. They're made from biodegradable materials, meaning you can flush them without worrying about polluting the water or clogging the drain.

Best Disposable Storage Bags

Hefty slider storage bags.

From used wet wipes to paper napkins and snack wrappers, you're bound to have many little bits of trash when flying with kids. I like to bring at least a couple of gallon-sized food storage bags on flights so I have somewhere other than my backpack or the plane seat pocket to shove garbage until I reach a trash receptacle at the airport.

Best First Aid Kit

Preparakit small compact first aid kit for kids.

This mini, TSA-approved first aid kit has everything you may need to tend to knicks, cuts, or splinters. (As is often the case with my kids, Band-Aids aren't just small wound dressings but also placebos for various blood-free boo-boos.) It's roughly the size of a wallet and contains 50 items, including adhesive bandages, antibiotic ointment, tweezers, medical tape, and thermometer strips — to name just a few.

Best Ear Pressure Relief

Cirrus earplanes for kids.

EarPlanes are clever earplugs that help alleviate the discomfort of cabin pressure, especially during takeoff and landing. The kids' version are small and designed to fit children's ears. They also reduce noise by 20 decibels, which might help sleepy kiddos get some in-flight shut-eye.

Wrigley Chewing Gum Variety Pack of 10

If your kids are old enough to chew gum, it might help prevent their ears from popping during takeoff and landing. And, like lollipops, it's a long-lasting treat that might feel special on a flight. This classic variety pack has flavors both chewing gum-aged children and adults will enjoy.

Depending on your kids' ages and travel experience, they might be able to (or want to) carry their own cargo, like a backpack or carry-on suitcase. Other options include ride-on luggage and parents' personal item bags to tote all the must-haves mentioned above.

Best Kids' Suitcase

Rockland jr. kids' my first hardside spinner.

After testing some of the best kids' luggage on the market, the Rockland Jr. Hardside Spinner is our favorite for younger children. Even those ages 7 or younger should be able to push and pull the compact, lightweight suitcase. And the cute designs will get your mini traveler in training excited about the trip ahead.

Best Kids' Backpack

State kane kid's backpack.

Of all the kids' backpacks we tested, the State Kane Backpack is arguably the best for air travel. It has one spacious compartment with plenty of room for a small blanket, travel pillow, or change of clothes, plus a padded tablet sleeve, an easy-access front pocket for snacks or a charger, and side slots for water bottles. The designs cater to kids ages 4 through 8 and are versatile enough to grow with your child.

Best Diaper Bag

Bugaboo changing backpack.

We don't need to tell you to bring a diaper bag when flying with a baby . But even if you have slightly older kids, a diaper backpack that stashes the essentials while keeping your hands free isn't a bad idea. This one from Bugaboo is sophisticated enough for any adult to carry. We tested it firsthand and loved the light, comfy design, intuitive pockets, and handy laptop sleeve.

Best Ride-on Suitcase

​​stokke jetkids bedbox.

The JetKids BedBox is a ride-on suitcase , which, if you're not familiar, allows a small child to sit on top and be tugged around through an airport. It boasts a spacious main compartment and reliable rotating wheels that make it easy to maneuver over carpet and hard floors. Parents can also reattach the pull strap and carry it over their shoulder.

Prioritize entertainment

Some flights may have age-appropriate movies, but generally speaking, airplanes don't offer much in terms of kids' entertainment. Hoffman recommends bringing a tablet with downloaded shows or movies. "[I] hate to suggest more screen time, but tray tables are not toys," she notes. "I see this too often and just experienced a 10-hour flight where the tray table was the only entertainment."

It's good to have other portable activities in your bag of tricks, too, such as mini travel games , books, or fidget toys. "Stickers and coloring books are always a hit with my two kids (ages four and seven)," says Winokur. Something your child has never seen or used before might pique their interest best. "The magic of a new set of sparkle crayons or gel pens can really make the activity even more exciting," the parenting expert adds.

Hoffman also recommends asking to see the flight deck when deplaning, which can give children something to look forward to. "Pilots love to show kids buttons and a few fun things up there that can be interactive for kids."

Have everything charged and ready to go

Yes, airports and airplanes have outlets, USB ports, and WiFi — but they're not always reliable or accessible. With that in mind, make sure all electronics (both kids' and parents') are fully charged and ready to go, including tablets, phones, headphones, noise machines, etc.

Download shows or movies ahead of time so they can be streamed offline. (Most streaming services, like Disney+, Netflix, and Amazon Prime Video, allow you to do this.) "I use a splitter for the headphones so both my kids can watch or listen to music together on the same tablet or phone," says Winokur. A portable power bank might be a good idea, too, just in case.

Consolidate your kids' most-needed items

This is easier said than done when flying with kids, but it's smart to try to pack light. Consider what your child needs on the plane, what they'll actually use, and what will make your life easier. Make a list of these items, then consolidate them into one carry-on bag so everything is easily accessible.

Frequently Asked Questions

It depends on a few factors, like your kids' ages, how many nights you'll be away, and whether you're checking bags. For some children, having their own luggage might get them excited about a family trip . In other cases, it may just be easiest for parents to consolidate everything into one suitcase.

"Anything goes as long as it's not a liquid or over 3.4 ounces," says Hoffman. She notes that there's an exception for larger containers of breastmilk, and warm water is always available for powdered formula, but it's best to stick with smaller portions whenever possible. "Yogurt packs and veggie purees seem to be the most popular and fall under TSA's 3.4-ounce rule," she notes. "I see a lot of cheese and crackers, mixed nuts, and PB&Js, too."

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When I fly with my children, I always do as much research as possible to make the journey smooth and comfortable. From finding the best activities to keep them entertained to packing their favorite snacks, I try to cover all the bases.

However, one of the biggest challenges I've faced before even getting to the plane is navigating airport security. Whether departing from a major hub like DFW Dallas or Detroit Metro , or a smaller airport like Tampa or San Jose SJC , the security queues can vary a lot, especially during peak times.

If you're like me and worry about getting through airport security with kids, here are some tips that have helped me breeze through the process with minimal stress.

I learned the hard way that keeping all necessary documents handy is crucial, especially when traveling with kids. For domestic flights, children under 18 typically don't need ID, according to TSA child rules . However, when my little one was flying as a lap infant , the airline asked for ID to confirm she was under two years old. Now, I always make sure to have their birth certificate or passport in a travel wallet, especially for international flights, where passports are mandatory.

One of the best ways I've found to avoid meltdowns at security is by understanding the rules ahead of time. The TSA guidelines have been my go-to resource for preparing my carry-ons and knowing what to expect during screening.

Screening of Carry-On Items

It can be a hassle to manage all the gear that comes with traveling with kids. From car seats to strollers, everything has to go through the X-ray machine. I remember struggling with collapsing the stroller while holding my toddler—definitely not a fun experience. Since then, I make sure I’m familiar with how to quickly fold it up before I even reach security.

Screening of Food and Beverages

I've learned that bringing snacks and drinks for the kids can sometimes be a double-edged sword. You can carry most food items through airport security , but when it comes to liquids like breast milk or juice, there are specific rules. These can exceed the usual 3.4-ounce limit, but I always make sure to declare them and place them separately from my other belongings. Letting the TSA officer know about the liquids upfront has saved me a lot of time.

Screening Your Child

One thing that reassured me was knowing that children under 12 don't have to remove their shoes, light jackets, or headwear during screening. My kids were relieved that they could stay close to me during the process, and I carried the younger ones in my arms through the metal detector to keep things moving smoothly.

I've found that arriving early is key to avoiding the stress of long security lines, especially when traveling with kids. I aim to be at the airport two hours before a domestic flight and at least three hours before an international flight. This gives me plenty of time to handle any unexpected hiccups, like finding a missing toy or grabbing a last-minute snack.

On one trip, I was thrilled to discover the TSA Family Screening Lines. These special lanes made it so much easier to get through security without the usual chaos. Not every airport has them, but when they do, it's a lifesaver. If I can’t spot them right away, I always ask an airport employee for help—it’s worth it to avoid the longer lines.

To get through security without any fuss, I’ve learned to dress myself and the kids in simple, security-friendly clothing. We avoid anything with metal buttons or large jewelry that could set off the metal detectors. And it’s a relief knowing that kids under 12, as well as adults over 75, don’t need to remove their shoes.

I've found that preparing for long security lines helps manage expectations—both mine and the kids’. I always check the airport’s website or use apps that provide real-time updates on wait times at security. That way, I can plan our arrival and keep the kids occupied if we do end up waiting.

Applying for TSA Pre-Check has been one of the best decisions I've made for traveling with kids. It’s made security so much easier, with shorter lines and no need to remove shoes, laptops, or liquids. Plus, kids under 12 traveling with a parent or guardian who has Pre-Check also get to enjoy the expedited screening. It’s a win-win for everyone.

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The Air Up There Podcast Flying With Kids: Tips From TSA

Season 5, Episode 2 Published: Wednesday, May 10, 2023

Making plans to fly with your kids? Do you know what to pack, how to pack it, and how to get through the security line seamlessly? Check in first with the Transportation Security Administration and Federal Aviation Administration by listening to our latest ‘The Air Up There’ podcast episode.

TSA – The Suitcase Advisors? Actually, we have a lot in common with TSA’s Emily Bonilla-Pieton and Lisa Farbstein: we’re parents, love air travel, safety and security. They joined us for our “Flying With Kids: Tips From TSA” episode to offer you practical advice for packing your bags and getting through the security line effortlessly.

After this episode, you’ll be a pro at finding surprise “no-no” items that your kids sneak into the luggage before you leave the house (and not in the security line), what snacks to pack and the best place to put them, what to do if your child safety seat doesn’t fit in the security scanning machine and more! It’s all in the planning and it starts at home. Walk out your door confidently for your next trip with the kids. Share this episode with other parents to help make their journey through the airport easy-peasy (lemon squeezy).    

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Parent Voice 1: Uh, yeah, I can remember a stranger actually holding one of my children onboard when they had a tantrum, because here I was with twins. 

Parent Voice 2: Oh, gosh, all the things that can go wrong. 

Parent Voice 3: Like, we don’t need to be superheroes here. 

Parent Voice 1: This is life and it’s not always easy.

Voiceover: Welcome to the Air Up There. A podcast about the wide world of aerospace. Presented by the Federal Aviation Administration.

00:22 Kevin Morris: Thanks for joining us. I’m your host Kevin Morris. As much as travel can be fun, it can also be a lot to process for parents like me. Not only are you thinking about what you packed, but you also have to keep tabs on what your child may have snuck into their luggage. On this episode we’ll be getting tips from Emily Bonilla-Pieton and Lisa Farbstein, representatives from the Transportation Security Administration, or TSA. They have advice for you on what to pack, how to pack it, and how to get through the security line when traveling with kids. 

00:58 Kevin Morris: Getting ready to travel starts at home before you even get to the airport. So, from a parent's perspective traveling with young kids, what things can they do at home before they even get in the car to go to the airport to make sure they have a smooth travel experience with their kids?

01:13 Emily Bonilla-Pieton: So, I know this can be very intimidating for parents, especially if they're traveling with small children or multiple children. Our advice would be to consider signing up for TSA PreCheck. The first step is looking into the application process to make sure you can get access to TSA PreCheck before your scheduled flight. For $78, you get an opportunity to travel with ease for five years. That's five years of not worrying about taking off your shoes, your belts, your outerwear, your travel liquids, your electronics. And I mean, children don't need to, under 12, don't need to do that. But 12 and under can accompany a parent with TSA PreCheck. So that is the first step we would look into or recommend. 

02:03 Lisa Farbstein: So if you are enrolled in TSA PreCheck, even if you're traveling, both say parents are traveling together and only one parent is enrolled, that parent can take the children through the TSA PreCheck lane. But do keep in mind as well. Even if you're in the TSA PreCheck lane or not that your children under age 12 can still leave their shoes on. 

02:26 Emily Bonilla-Pieton: Also, there are many resources we have available that will help you prepare on what can and cannot fly or even videos that will help your children to better understand what they're going to expect through the security process. We have a TSA YouTube series designed for children in a very kid friendly way that provides guidance on frequently asked questions and specific topics and you know, since it's designed for children, it's very kid friendly with the music. Actually, my own children voiced the characters, so it's children speaking to other children. So, it's a really cute series that we began just this past year. Another resource that we have is our Ask TSA team. So that's the customer service side of the house. Ask TSA is designed to be available seven days a week 8am to 6pm, Eastern Standard Time. They're available on Twitter, Facebook, and now texts. So, you can either ask your questions, submit your photos, and a live agent will provide guidance. So, anything from can my peanut butter jar go in my carry-on bag, so I can make my kids PB and J sandwiches on the flight to can this toy from Disney fly in my carry on? We’ll have somebody on hand that could provide guidance in real time.   03:53 Kevin Morris:  As a parent myself with a couple of boys that have made it through multiple rounds, airport travel, I think anything you can do in advance to make that process smoother, like what you just laid out, Emily, is great advice. So, alright, so let's say somehow, as a parent group, you've managed to get your kids’ stuff packed, you've managed to get him into the car, you get to the airport on time, everything seems to be going great. Now you're at the airport. So, what happens now? 

04:20 Emily Bonilla-Pieton: So a couple things is nowadays, some people use their electronic devices, whether they'll be iPads or electronic pads, as a kind of a clutch to ease their nerves maybe. Preparing your child that they'll be temporarily separated with their device is important. It just needs to go through screening real quick, but they can just go through security and then pick it up right at the other end. Something also really important to add is, you know, if you're traveling with strollers or car seats, you'll have to remove your child from car seats and strollers. They'll get screened by X ray and if they're too large, they'll have to be pulled aside and visually and physically inspected. But at no point during the screening process, will you be separated from your children. So, that's the key takeaway. And most importantly, you know, communicate with the officers. The officers are on hand to help and to guide those that need that extra assistance. Especially if you're traveling alone, you only have so many hands. So, you know, feel free to request some assistance to break down strollers or car seats to load them on the X ray machine. You want to make sure that you're communicating with your child – you’re just gonna stand for a little bit and then I'm going to carry you through security. If you're walking them through the process, or even our own officers, we'll walk them through the process, you'll see that it's not as scary and it's pretty easy-peasy.

05:52 Kevin Morris: You did mention child safety seats and I want to touch on that a little bit. I know as a parent my blood pressure was probably never higher than getting close to that security screening area with kids in a big ol’ car seat next to me. So, what tips, how can a parent sort of make that process as smooth as possible. They have this big child safety seat that they're bringing with? What advice do you have for them when they have that type of equipment?

06:17 Emily Bonilla-Pieton: Some of us over prepare and overpack. You want to make this as easy for you as possible. So even making sure that your stroller is just more easier to collapse or to travel with. But overall, we would say, of course, safety first. There's never a rush through security. Use the help that's available to you at the checkpoint. And once again, communicate with your children what's happening next what to expect next, the step by step. It can be a stressful time, but if you use it as a point of storytelling and hyping it up as an experience, you know, you find that your child will be more understanding and actually more excited to go through the process.

07:03 Kevin Morris: I've seen so many these child safety seats these days; they look like they could survive reentry. So, what happens if they’re so large they don't fit through the X ray? What happens, then?

07:14 Emily Bonilla-Pieton: So, then the officer will take it in over the x ray machine, and they will have to do a visual and physical inspection. It may require a pat down to the parent. Just to make sure the item is cleared. But that is pretty much a seldom occasion if it doesn't fit through X ray.

07:32 Kevin Morris: As long as you're talking about packing, and perhaps over packing, I challenge anyone to find a more well stocked person than a parent with kids going through security. You've got liquids, you've got food, you've got crackers, and snacks and all sorts of things. So, what tips do you have for that parent? What can they bring through? What are the liquid requirements? Or can they bring food? What happens if stuff is wrapped? What are some general guidelines you could help us out with?

07:57 Emily Bonilla-Pieton: Well, the great news is that you know, yeah, so you can bribe your children with snacks and guess what - snacks are good to go. And so are most liquids for your child. So, there is sometimes an exception to a liquids rule when you're traveling with small babies or infants when it comes to milk and juice. It will just have to be screened separately and cleared. But when it comes to any kind of crackers, sandwiches, fruits, yogurts, those are all good to go. I would address the officer beforehand, give him a heads up that there are snacks in your bag that you're traveling with snacks and what drinks there may be in your bag. I would also encourage that if you're using ice packs, if it's frozen solid, those are good to go as well. And of course, who wouldn't be a prepared parent without bringing some medication, liquid medication, just in case. Those are also okay to go when you're traveling with children.

08:52 Kevin Morris: Would there be an expectation perhaps, if you did bring some liquids through that those liquids may be tested or pulled out of the bag and further examined? Or what type of maybe extra screening or look-at may they get from TSA agents?

09:07 Emily Bonilla-Pieton: If it's sealed, it will not be opened. But if it's a baby bottle, it would be opened and inspected but not touched. Is that fair to say Lisa?

09:17 Lisa Farbstein:  Right. So, sometimes we have something called bottle liquid scatters. And so the bottle can be placed in there and it usually takes about a minute for the unit to be able to detect the liquid inside to make sure that there are no traces of explosives. In some instances, you can open the bottle, say, and then they'll hold a little strip at the top to get any kind of fumes that, you know, any kind of odor from the contents. And again, they'll take that strip and feed it into a device to make sure that there are no traces of explosives, because that's really what we're concerned about. But just like Emily said, parents want to be prepared. We know that they're traveling with liquids, whether that's a bottle, whether that's some applesauce, she mentioned yogurt. You want to bring enough for the flight. You don't want to bring enough for the whole trip. She also mentioned peanut butter a little while ago. So interestingly, peanut butter is spreadable. So, if you can spill it, spread it, spray it, pump it or pour it - it's considered a liquid or a gel, something spreadable. So, don't bring the jar of peanut butter, but guess what? Bring the premade peanut butter sandwich.

10:33 Kevin Morris: Thanks, Lisa. That's also some really, really good advice.

10:35 Lisa Farbstein: I just want to add one other thing. And that is, when you're packing, say that diaper bag or that shoulder bag, it's a good idea to pack all those liquids, gels, medications in one area. So, you're not searching through several bags to pull them out. If you put them all out, when you get to the checkpoint and put them in a bin, it will go much smoother. So put those in your outer pockets, say if you've got the diaper bag. Put those sorts of liquids, you know, some bottles, the little juice bags in the outer pocket so that they're easy to take out and easy to put back in. It'll save you a lot of time and hassle. 

11:10 Kevin Morris: Thank you, Lisa. That's also really good advice. I know we've all had that feeling when you're on that security belt and you're trying to dig for stuff you feel like 1000 eyes are upon your back. And it's can be super stressful. I think I gotta get this stuff out quickly. So, putting it on the outside that's a great tip. Let's look back a little bit in hindsight. So maybe we can learn from others too. What are some common mistakes that you see parents make while going through security with their kids.

11:35 Emily Bonilla-Pieton: So, for me personally, as a mother, I know, I announce that we're going on a trip and the first thing my children want to do is pack up their own bag. So, I think helpful advice is to make sure you inspect all the bags that you're taking to the airport, because you never know what your kids will pack. Whether it be slime or replica items like Nerf guns, or I know my kid is big into superhero items. Those items could look different through an x ray perspective, and could actually delay your screening process. So, for us, we always recommend you know, pack smart. And we don't normally travel, so, make sure before you pack your bag to inspect your bag, and make sure it's clear of any other storage items you might have used it for in the meantime, and make sure you double check what your kid is packing. Yes, encourage that opportunity to do it together, but definitely don't let them do it alone.

12:36 Kevin Morris: Emily, your suggestion about making sure you watch what your kids pack is a great suggestion, because I didn't do that one time my kid packed his Xbox. So, it's just something you really want to make sure you're keeping your eyes on. I think we've had some really good advice and I hope this really helps parents as they get going towards a vacation or a trip or anytime they're traveling with kids. Because traveling can be stressful all on its own and then you throw your loving kids in the mix, and it can be even more stressful. So, I guess I'm going to throw it back to you, Lisa and Emily, one last time. Is there anything else any other suggestions or tips you might give parents for traveling with those kids just to keep that blood pressure down a little bit? And Emily, we'll start with you. 

13:20 Emily Bonilla-Pieton: Yeah, we always say an educated passenger is a competent passenger. So, we always encourage y'all to keep an eye on our social media content. You can find TSA on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, and Instagram. And through those accounts, you can keep up with the latest agency, travel tips, guidance, and on Instagram, some really good catches that our officers are making nationwide.

13:47 Lisa Farbstein: But I would like to add that if a parent wants to bring a child with a disability, medical condition or medical device, it's a good idea to inform the TSA officer in advance and advise the officer the best way to relieve any concerns during that screening process. We do have a super helpful tip line for these sorts of things. It's called TSA Cares. And if you call TSA Cares, 72 hours in advance, you will know what to expect. And that number is 855-787-2227 or federal relay 711.

14:23 Kevin Morris: Lisa, Emily, I can't thank you both enough for your time today. I know it certainly helped me out. I wish I would have known a lot of these things a while ago. So, hopefully this can help parents out as they're getting their travel plans ready for the upcoming year. So again, thank you for your time. I really appreciate it.

Child Safety PSA with Kristina Harris: This is Kristina Harris, with the FAA. I am a mother and a frequent flyer, and I know that family travel can be challenging. 

Did you know that the safest place for your small child or infant during in a flight is in a government-approved child restraint system or device and not on your lap? It’s true. When unexpected turbulence hits, it’s impossible for your arms to hold your child securely. Here are some tips to help you with your air travel plans. Buying a ticket for your child is the only way to guarantee that you will be able to use a child restraint. Not all car seats are approved for airplanes. Look for the printed message that says this restraint is approved for use in both motor vehicles and for aircraft. Use a rear or forward-facing child restraint based on the child’s weight. You can also use the AMSAFE Cares device for children who weigh 22 to 44 pounds. 

Use a child restraint or device. It’s the safe and smart thing to do so your family arrives safely at your destination. Go to faa.gov/travelers to learn more.

Kevin Morris: Thank you for joining us today! We hope you’ve learned a few new tricks to make traveling with your more enjoyable. Because flying is a great experience to share with your kids. For even more family travel tips, check out other episodes in our podcast series, “Flying with Kids.” And subscribe to our podcast so you don’t miss an upcoming episode with a flight attendant who has great tips for you on navigating the boarding process. If you liked this episode, leave a review to let us know - and share it with another parent YOU know, because us parents have got to stick together. 

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12 Toddler Essentials for Air Travel

Last month, Eliza took her first trip on a plane. We headed to Texas to visit Dave’s mom and full disclosure — I had a lot of anxiety about the visit. Even without COVID, I would have had nerves about traveling with a toddler, but with safety concerns, those feelings were multiplied. In addition to the standard thoughts of “I hope she doesn’t get upset during the flight”, “what will getting through security be like with all. the. things?!”, and “what if there’s a diaper emergency?”, this trip also brought worries regarding sanitation and prayers she wouldn’t find a way to touch everything. When it comes to air traveling with small kids, we are far from experts. But, I think the nerves I have — while wanting Eliza to have as many practical comforts as possible — is more common and typical than seasoned pros with regular jet-setting toddlers. I planned, packed, and we successfully made it through our trip! We learned some things along the way that I thought could be beneficial for those of you who may be interested in hearing the opinions and experiences of the occasional travelers (newly with child in-tow 😉 ). Today, I’m sharing 12 toddler travel essentials from our flight that made our trip so much easier, along with a details on our general logistics when it came to our travel days.

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12 Toddler Travel Essentials (for Air Travel)

1. Kitty Backpack | 2. Spill-Proof Thermos | 3. Headphones | 4. Bibs Pacifiers | 5. North Face Fleece | 6. Fat Brain Toys Suction Kupz | 7. Fat Brain Toys Dimpl | 8. Tubby Todd Hand Sanitizer | 9. Water Wipes | 10. Happy Tot Pouches | 11. Diaper Bag Dispenser & Refills | 12. UPPAbaby Minu Travel Stroller

1. Kitty Backpack  

Because we were traveling after the holidays, I used Christmas as an opportunity to gift Eliza a few things for our trip. Eliza was 18 months at the time of travel, is very petite and while I wasn’t planning for her to walk much in the airport, I wanted her to have a little backpack she could manage, should she need to wear one (especially while boarding the plane). All airlines have different policies when it comes to carry-on items. I mentioned before that because I’m nervous, I like to be extra comfortable. While 2 and under can fly free as lap flyers, had Delta not had their current blocked middle seat practice in place, we would have went ahead and purchased Eliza her own seat. But, because Delta is currently blocking middle seats, I listed Eliza as a lap-flier, knowing we would have room in the middle seat for our family, also. But, without her being a commissioned flyer, I didn’t want to run into any snags in terms of carry-ons and personal items. (I think my anxiety is showing even in the explanation of my thought process, haha). Bottom line — I wanted a small bag she could carry on her back, onto the plane, while I was holding her, that could hold a few of her flight snacks and activities.

Because of her age and size, I didn’t know if this sweet little pack would overpower her but I was pleasantly surprised when it arrived to see how much space it had, despite its petite structure. The straps are adjustable, it’s easy to unzip and grab from, and the outside pockets are actually usable. It comes in both a mini and small (we have the mini) and coincidentally, it’s on clearance this weekend . Plus, there’s an additional 30% off clearance promo right now, using code COZY HERE . My mom has a black kitty that Eliza loves so I leapt at the chance to snag this backpack but there’s also a bunny version (on sale but not on clearance) HERE . Even if you aren’t much of a flier, these backpacks are sweet for everyday use, car trips, and days out. We opted to get ours personalized but without personalization, the mini (originally $45) is currently $18 with code COZY .

2. Spill-Proof Thermos  

At home, Eliza has her milk cups and her water cups with straws. Neither were appropriate for tossing in a bag and flying. I wanted something that was easy, wouldn’t spill, had a protected straw, and had a safe straw that was soft. THIS little thermos — which comes in a few colors — worked perfectly. The fact that it had little kitty ears and nestled inside Eliza’s little backpack side pocket perfectly was a happy coincidence 😉 One caveat not to miss — we brought it with us totally empty and then filled it with water from a shop on the other side of security. When we took it out after we were in flight and popped the top open, the pressure that had built up made water squirt all over. Shocking, funny, but totally embarrassing. If you use this as a travel cup and fly with it –which I would 100% recommend! — make sure to twist the lid to relieve pressure before popping the cap open once you’re in-flight ;).

3. Headphones

Flying is not the time I wanted to test my parenting skills to see if I could keep Eliza entertained without a screen, haha. These padded headphones for kids fold nicely for compact carrying, come in several colors, and worked perfectly! The cord is tipped with a standard headphone jack — which is compatible with the airplane TVs for direct input — but if you plan to plug into an iPad/iPhone, make sure to grab on of these adapters ( HERE ). Most Delta flights are equipped with TVs built into the headrests these days, but if you aren’t sure about your plane, THESE adapters are tiny and great to keep on hand, just in case.

4. Bibs Pacifiers

While Eliza typically only has a paci for sleep time, I brought several along for the flight for both takeoff and landing. They worked like a charm and she was totally unfazed by elevation/shifting of pressures.

5. North Face Fleece

When we were traveling, the weather was a bit funny. From ATL to San Antonio, the temperature shifts throughout our stay was anywhere from 30s to 70s. I didn’t want to over-pack heavy coats and even though I knew Eliza wouldn’t be going out at night during the coldest temps, I wanted something warm but lightweight for travel and “just in case”. Santa brought her this sweet little North Face fleece jacket that we love. It was light enough to wear through the airport and on the plane (and can fold up teeny tiny!), but would have given just the right amount of warmth as an added layer in the chilly temps. We went for classic black but they come in several colors HERE , and is available as small as a size 0-3 mo.

6. Fat Brain Toys Suction Kupz

I was really nervous about keeping Eliza entertained during our travel days and I really had to work to keep the carry-ons lightweight and not over-stuffed. These flexible silicone suction cups are so versatile — they stack, bend, and add virtually no added weight. Another perk — they’re easy to clean! I did bring a couple of books on the plane too, and those actually proved to be a waste. They were too bulky, heavy, and only kept her entertained for a few minutes — on the way back, I added them to our checked luggage.

7. Fat Brain Toys Dimpl

Another lightweight winner, this Dimpl is easy to toss in a carry-on. Even if you aren’t traveling, it makes a great carseat toy!

8. Tubby Todd Hand Sanitizer

It smells great, the spray feature is easy and provides full coverage, and it’s gentle on sensitive skin. It comes in a two-pack and I always keep one in the car and one in my purse!

9. Water Wipes

Good for face, hands, and diaper changes, flying with a single pack of water wipes instead of several different kinds of wipes was the perfect solution.

10. Happy Tot Pouches

Even if you aren’t a typical “pouch family”, these pouches are quick, easy, travel well, and are a great way to get some nutrients in when traveling. Eliza loves these and they have everything from sweet potatoes, squash, chia, and mango to carrots, spinach, green beans, and apples.

11. Diaper Bag Dispenser & Refills

These deodorized diaper bags aren’t just a top travel essential, but an essential for babies and toddlers, in general. They’re small and compact and totally conceal any smell. I know this is oversharing a bit and my mom will be mortified if she sees this but on more than one occasion, I’ve used these on the go, knotted them and tossed them in my purse, and totally forgotten they were there. Not only am I totally fine and confident storing a dirty diaper in these — even in my purse, should I not have access to a trash can — but they’re also great when you’re visiting someone’s house and you don’t want to put a dirty diaper directly in their trashcan. Even when I visit with my parents, I just don’t feel right sticking an unprotected, smelly diaper in their regular trash. You can find the dispenser with bags HERE for $3.99 (they ship free), and grab bag refills HERE .

12. UPPAbaby Minu Travel Stroller

The number one thing that was likely the source of the majority of my anxiety about traveling was the logistics and ease, making our way through the airport, through security, and onto the plane. We have always used an UPPAbaby Vista stroller (which by the way, I 100% recommend), but for air travel especially, I thought it would be too heavy, too bulky, and too cumbersome. I started researching travel strollers and from reviews, videos, and rankings, it seemed the UPPAbaby Minu was by far the best combination of easy and lightweight while still having premium features. We have been such fans of our other UPPAbaby gear, so the numerous comparisons I read weren’t surprising. Also, while we love our Vista , I thought it was probably time to consider going with something a little more easy and portable that could potentially transition into our new primary stroller. We got it c/o UPPAbaby just before our trip and, wow. Not only is it lightweight (while the Vista weighs in at over 26 lbs, the MINU weighs just under 15 lbs), but it folds down to its most compact size with one hand and has a carrying strap. While it doesn’t have the huge wheels the Vista has, it does maneuver effortlessly and easily — if you have experience with other UPPAbaby strollers, you know how well they glide. The best part — it fits in the overhead bin on the plane.

This alone was a huge determining factor for me when I was researching. I don’t trust checked baby gear and if it could be avoided, I didn’t even want to chance checking a stroller at the gate. When we went to board the plane, the gate agent gave us a slip to check it and I declined, telling her it was *supposed* to fit in the overhead bin. She was doubtful. When we boarded, the flight attendant said “um, that can be checked” and again, I told her it would fit in the overhead, hoping the claims of what I read were true. Dave easily lifted the stroller, slid it in the overhead compartment, and shut the hatch. The flight attendant was shocked and asked where we got it. Now again, this was the first time we flew with it but I was surprised she was so surprised. A stroller fitting in the overhead so easily is that rare?? Apparently, to her, it was.

In terms of the features, it has a hood, a sunshade, and the recline is adjustable. It has a basket underneath which still accompanied both Dave and Eliza’s bags as we cruise through the airport and just as the stroller fit perfectly in the overhead compartment on the plane, it has a single-handed fold-up that makes it easy and quick to put on the security conveyor. It’s upright and wheels in small spaces and isn’t too cumbersome to jump on and off the plane train at the airport. It was such a game changer during our trip that it now resides in the cargo space of my crossover and has become our primary stroller.

And, while we waited until now to test out the MINU , if you prefer something smaller and more lightweight in general, even at an earlier age, it does comes with the ability to attach an infant seat! You can find the adapter (it would have worked with our UPPAbaby Mesa, among others) HERE . There’s a big pocket on the back, it holds up to 50 lbs, and it has fee same-day delivery where we live HERE .

*BONUS* Gathre Leather Changing Mat

These things are lifesavers — they fold up into a tiny square, are easily wiped clean, and are not only good for diaper changes, but mats to eat on, also (I brought two with us). You can lay them on any surface and I prefer to put these on top of changing stations instead of trying to Clorox the entire thing.

Other Travel Favorites (Non-Flight Related)

While not flight-related, I wanted to share a few of our favorites we’ve used for trips by car, also.

Eliza is incredibly regimented so the first time we took an overnight trip, I was nervous about how she would sleep in a hotel room — especially while we stayed awake for hours longer. We ordered this Slumberpod which is essentially a blackout tent, designed to fit over a pack and play. It worked perfectly . It stays pitch black, is breathable and even has an interior pocket if you want to set a monitor inside.

We also set Eliza’s white noise machine — the Hatch — inside the Slumberpod so not only is it pitch black, but it also drowns out the noise outside of the pod. We use it nightly in her nursery so we just pack it in our luggage.

In terms of packing, THESE packing cubes are game changers — not just for kids, but for the whole family. For small kids specifically, though, with Eliza splitting suitcases with me, it so helped having all of her things grouped together, organized and separated. I swear these make it easier to fit so much more inside the suitcase, too. I used one cube for her outfits, one for diapers, wipes, and toiletries, and one for everything else. They come in several color options and are one of my most favorite discoveries of the last five years.

As we become more seasoned (one day), traveling as a family of three, I’m sure we’ll continue to learn and simplify but as for our first flight travel experience — especially during a more concerning time — the prep leading up to our trip totally paid off. Packing and traveling with small kids is no joke but I literally took inventory of our full typical day and tried to duplicate that in a travel-version. Are there any toddler essentials you swear by that make traveling with kids easier? If so, you can share those in the comment section at the bottom of the post!

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It’s not a travel essential but I wanted to share an experience. When my first born was a baby we flew across the country, changing flights twice. I wore white jeans, as it was summer. When I arrived at my destination I was a dirty mess. So if traveling with a baby or toddler leaves the white jeans at home. I’m also a nervous traveller. I love to travel and once on the flight I’m fine. I’m always afraid of missing my flight and never sleep much the night before departure, then airports freak me out. So..many..people! Once on the plane, I relax and look forward to my destination. I can’t wait until we can travel again safely.

Hi Joanna, Thank you so much for taking the time to stop by! I appreciate the tip. We also take our travel wear into account when we go on trips. You are so right that white is not the way to go. Thank you for sharing your experience and I also look forward to the time when traveling is easier for us all!

Not sure where in North Georgia you live, but flying out of Chattanooga might be worth the drive. We flew out of Atlanta with our 7 year old granddaughter and going through security was terrible. The security officer was yelling at everyone, which had my granddaughter in tears. I understand they have a serious job to do, but it was a horrible experience. Our flight back from Orlando went extremely smooth. We will fly from Chattanooga now.

Hi Fran, Thank you so much for taking the time to stop by and leave a message. I agree that the Atlanta airport can be tough. I really appreciate your tip!

I don’t have a travel comment. I just want to say Eliza is just adorable! I could just squeeze her with those head phones on.

Hi Sara, Thank you so much for your sweet message! the head phones were definitely a hit with Eliza. xoxo

Our most stressful flight of all times was traveling back from China with a 22-month-old we barely knew (who was somewhat terrified of my husband)! It was a 17-hour flight! Some things that helped entertain our new son were not toys. A pad of post-it notes, a box of bandaids, a roll of masking tape, and lots and lots of snacks! Sometimes the novelty of getting to use something that is normally off limits (or at least not a toy) can work wonders!

Hi Libbe, Thank you so much for taking the time to visit! I can’t imagine a 17-hour flight, but it sounds like it was such a great one for a wonderful reason. Love your tips on the items you used to entertain your son. I appreciate you sharing!

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15 Airplane Hacks That’ll Make Flying With Toddler Easier

Flying with a toddler is no stroll in the park. You’ve already gone through the madness of check-in, security, and a gozilion other queues. Now, you’re asking your toddler to sit still in a giant piece of metal that will make loud noises and their ears will pop?

I would be lying if I said, there is a way to make it stress-free, but the hacks I’ve gathered from my and others’ experience will definitely make it much easier.

15 hacks for easier travelling with toddler

• Book your flight according to your toddler’s sleep regime
• Prep your toddler for the journey
• Make edible jewellery
• Dress in layers
• At check-in, ask if they have a spare seat for your toddler
• Request a front or back row seat
• Eat before you board
• Have your partner board the plane firs t
• Have something ready to relieve your toddler from ear ache
• Research aeroplane restraint devices
• Prep activities 
• Prep for bedtime
• Offer your toddler lots of water 
• Stick to the routine as much as possible
• Indulge them

Let’s dive in.

PREPARATIONS

Prepare for the flight. The longer it’ll be, the more activities and animations you’ll need to pass the time quicker.

You also need to be smart about your seating, whether your toddler will want to walk down the aisle or if they are kept busy with games and drawing, so they can sit by the window and be amazed by all the clouds. 

You’ll have to spend the next two to whatever hours with everything that you’ve brought, so make sure you’ve prepared well. And to do so well, here are some hacks and advice from own experience:

1. Book your flight according to your toddler’s sleep regime

If possible, book flights around the time your toddler gets sleepy. I know it sounds trivial but a sleeping toddler is 10 times better than an active one on a cramped plane.

Also, before a morning (or to be honest any) flight, ensure your child gets a good night’s sleep. You don’t want to be stuck with a grumpy toddler. 

2. Prep your toddler for the journey

Talk to your toddler and introduce them to the plane and what will happen before they board the unfamiliar transportation.

The sounds, the look, and the whole experience of the plane are new to the toddler and that might make them feel terrified. Prepping them and making it an educational, kid-friendly game will turn the experience into an adventure. 

Tip: sit your toddler on your lap in front of the TV, put on a simulation video of take off and show them the G-force and turbulence by moving together as if you’re flying on an aeroplane. 

3. Make edible jewellery

You can combine hack No.2 and No.3 by educating your toddler about their next adventure while making edible necklaces.

It’s a fun craft and it gives them some responsibility in the preparation process. Some great options are cheerios, pretzels, fruit loops, and some gummies.

Just remember HEALTHY SNACKS only, avoid sugary treats not to rev them up.

4. Dress in layers

Make sure your toddler is dressed in layers that are easy to put on and take off.

The temperature on the plane drastically changes and I’ve caught a cold myself many times while flying. Eventually, I learned the lesson which I strictly apply to my kids. 

5. At check-in, ask if they have a spare seat for your toddler

If your toddler is under 2, they aren’t required to have a seat of their own, however, it won’t hurt to ask if the plane has a spare seat that you could be allocated next to.

Your toddler will have their own seat so it’ll be easier for them to sleep and more space for you. If it’s a long haul flight and you can afford it, I would even recommend purchasing a separate toddler’s seat. 

6. Request a front or back row seat

Another thing you could politely ask at check-in desk is if there are free front or back row seats available. The front row seats will usually have extra legroom, while both the back and front rows are close to the exit which leads to easier boarding and getting off the plane.

7. Eat before you board

Whether you’ve packed some sandwiches or have found a restaurant serving free food for kids, I advise you to eat before you board – you’ll have one less thing to worry about onboard.

Reaching food and making sure everyone’s happy with the options might become difficult while stuck on the plane. 

Tip: Avoid greasy meals as they contribute to indigestion, however, filling protein-rich foods is a great option if you have a choice. 

Contradictory Hack: You could actually eat during the flight instead, as that would kill time and there’s lots of that on the plane. However, that’s only recommended if your toddler is able to stay still while eating. I don’t even want to picture the mess a fussy toddler makes on the plane. The look on your neighbour’s face when they see a carrot landing on their shirt is one you don’t want to witness. 

8. Have your partner board the plane first

If you’re not travelling alone, have your travel companion board the plane first and secure the overhead bins while you have your toddlers burn the most energy possible ie making them race around the gate area. 

This way you won’t have to force your toddlers to stay still while everyone’s boarding but you’ll have overhead bins ready for you and your drained-to-the-last-bit toddlers. 

TAKE OFF/LANDING

Now comes the take off. It can be scary even for adults so it’s important you talk to your toddler about what will happen on the giant plane.

If you’ve found the time to educate them about flying and specifically take off, you’ve got one less thing to worry as your toddler is at least aware of what’s going to happen. 

9. Have something ready to relieve your toddler from ear ache

With take off and landing, besides the possible fear and crying along with it, unfamiliar issues occur like ear popping that leads to ache. This often uncomfortable sensation is related to pressure changes. Normally, the Eustachian tube equalises the air pressure but in kids it might not do this as well.

The act of chewing and swallowing can shift the ear enough to help the Eustachian tube do its job. To avoid unnecessary suffering for your toddler, clear up their congestion and have one or more of these ready:

• Lollipops/pacifiers or food pouch
• Breastfeeding
• Plenty of water

It’s important you keep your toddler awake and you can even make them practice yawning in a fun playful way, pretending to be lions.

Though crying isn’t pleasant, it also helps prevent aching ears, which is why take off and landing is the time to let your toddler cry it out. 

10. Research aeroplane restraint devices

Each airline has different regulations for how the toddler must be harnessed. They might provide some type of restraint depending on the airline like a belly belt – infant lap belt or a child restraint seat.

However, there are some alternatives that you can bring to make it more comfortable for your toddler, though I cannot stress enough that you double checked with the airline what is acceptable and on which seat (because that also matters). The alternatives are:

• FAA approved car seat. If your car seat is approved by the airline it must have a 5-point harness and fit into the seat measurements of the particular aircraft you’re flying. This should be particularly useful if you’re flying with a smaller toddler. The car seat they’re used to will be a comforting element on an unfamiliar mode of transportation. 
• CARES harness (approved for toddlers who weigh 10 – 20 kg). If the toddler has their own seat on the plane but doesn’t want to sit in the boring old car seat, this harness can be used if the toddler meets the measurement regulations. Again, I emphasise the need to double-check that the airline you’re flying with accepts this type of harness and the particular seat your toddler will be sitting in. 

Okay, so you’ve survived take off. The plane is levelled and your toddler starts to slowly familiarise with their surroundings.

They might start to move around and jump to the aisle wishing to explore the plane and everyone in it. Of course, it’s not an ideal way of passing time on a crammed plane and flight attendants walking back and forth. 

Time starts to move slower and slower as your toddler begins to be more reluctant to sit down.

It’s time you pull out all the surprises that you’ve prepared and use your imagination for spending this flight bonding with your toddler and giving them attention that they’ve always begged for. It’s not like you’ve got somewhere else to go.

Your toddler will be secretly grateful for all these hacks and surprises that you’ll have prepared.

11. Prep activities 

This hack you’re obviously supposed to do before leaving home for the trip. No matter if it’s two, four or six hours, it’ll be a long time on the flight and without all of their toys, your toddler will get bored within the first half hour.

Besides bringing their favourite toys and the iPad, there are other creative things that you can take to make the long flight go faster:

• Multipurpose Backpack or Travel Activity Tray . These two are smart inventions for organising and creating easy access to your toddler’s favourite things to play with. Crayons, notepads, snacks, the iPad, water bottle, and their toys will all be beautifully packed in one backpack or set to play with on the activity tray. Pack these right and your toddler will have everything in reach from their seat. 
• Gel clings . You can make this one even more fun by buying themed gel clings according to your holiday. Your toddler can stick snowflakes and snowmans or beach umbrellas and colourful fishes to their window and watch them swim in the sky. 
• Buy new toys and wrap them up in foil. This takes some extra effort but it’ll be like second Christmas for your toddler. Buy cheap, tiny toys, wrap them all in foil and leave them in the backpack without telling your toddler. The little one will be so excited to discover your gifts.

12. Prep for bedtime

If it’s time to sleep on the aeroplane, there are alternatives that you can bring on board to improve your toddler’s sleep quality. If they get a seat of their own, you can come prepared with things like:

• Inflatable foot rest . This particular item comes in a pack of two, which means either you and your toddler, or if you’ve got more than one kiddo, they can enjoy a more comfortable position during the flight. The foot rest is easy to inflate and provides the length needed for the toddler to lay on the seat like on a bed. It is compact and lightweight, and can be used on any other transportation. Just bring a small pillow and a blanket to cover the little one. 
• Suitcase bed. BedBox by JetKids (20L) suitcase has a mattress incorporated inside. Once you’re on the plane and allowed to do so, unfold the mattress from the ride-on suitcase and your toddler can enjoy a comfy bed of their own. The rest of the space in the suitcase can be used for their little pillow and blankie. 

13. Offer your toddler lots of water 

Airplane cabins have low humidity, thus your toddler (and you) can easily get dehydrated. Bring along sippy cups and remember that you’re allowed to bring a full bottle of water when travelling with a baby/toddler.

To be fully prepared and save money, after security fill an empty sports bottle that you’ve brought with yourself. 

Tip: bring an anti-spill cup. No-brainer but easy to forget. Invest in one that your toddler will like to hold and look at, it will be easier to convince them to drink water out of it. 

14. Stick to the routine as much as possible

Try to stick to your toddler’s routine, especially on long-haul flights. They will behave better if they detect something familiar while experiencing this unknown adventure.

If they’re used to hearing a bedtime story before bed then read them one. Even if it’s googled and read from your phone. 

15. Indulge them

Lastly, indulge them. Let them do the thing they’re only allowed to do on special occasions. Technically, flying is a special occasion for your toddler. I know how hard you work on disciplining your kiddo but they only get to fly once in a while, if any.

Travelling with a toddler is a big challenge for any parent. Letting them use the iPad during the flight will only give you some time to breathe and regroup. Don’t worry, you won’t lose the “good enough” parent badge for doing so. 

This flight too shall pass…

Prepare yourself. The hacks will help ease your trip and reduce the level of stress you’ll have, however, preparing yourself for the inevitable is the smart way to go.

And while your toddler is kicking the seat in front of them, crying from the ear ache or is poking you 20 times non stop, remember the impermanence of this hardship and that this too shall pass. 

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Top Tips For Flying With A Toddler 2024

Travelling with toddlers on a plane who are so energetic, not to mention emotionally charged pint-sized little people can be exhausting.

Two children, 80+ countries across six continents, including two years of full-time travel, I feel I have the flying with a toddler tips nailed!

I mean, I’m over here just trying to survive the day without any epic meltdowns about toast being cut the wrong way, never mind bundling into a closed space with hundreds of strangers for hours on end.

I cannot tell you how many people email me DAILY asking for tips on flying with a toddler! For some reason, it makes us parents so nervous, almost to the point of putting fun travel and adventures on hold for a few years. I’m here to tell you, don’t worry, I have lots of tips!

I’ve taken my kids everywhere and the thought of giving up travelling for the sake of a long flight with a very energetic toddler is not an option. The end reward of a new destination is what it’s all about!

As a family, we have so many fond memories of our little ones experiencing new sights, smells and sounds in a foreign country, making it totally worth every minute on a flight. So with all the positive vibes in the world, I’ve tackled the best way to execute the task head on!

With plenty of preparation, it’s totally possible to execute my flying with a toddler tips successfully. Of course, they may be a little tired or grouchy at times and that’s where my tried and tested tips come to play.

I must point out flying with a baby or flying with older kids is a lot different than flying with a toddler, dare I say a little easier, but like I mentioned preparation is everything.

You can also check out our full toddler carry on travel essentials post here or our favourite travel toys for toddlers here !

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Table of Contents

• Bring Lots Of Airplane Snacks
• Be Prepared With New Travel Toys

Pre Made Activity Packs

• Best Tablet For Toddlers
• Pack In Flight Airplane Bed
• Navigating The Airport
• Travel Car Seats
• Choosing Seats On Board
• Boarding The Flight WIth A Toddler
• Disembarking
• Handling Delays

Tips For Flying With A Toddler

I love the acronym S.A.S , it stands for snacks, activities and sleep aids . These are the three things that are going to save your ass with keeping your flying toddler entertained and contained to the best of your ability. I will go into this in detail below but keep this little easy reminder in the back of your mind!

Airplane Snacks

Out of all the fights we have taken with our kids, the most successful ones have been when we bring tonnes of their favourite snacks and meals with us!

Yes, it can be annoying bringing an entire extra bag of food, but if their tummies are satisfied and they’re chewing, they are quiet! This has to be one of the best tips for traveling with a toddler I was ever given.

I try to be as realistic as possible with what I bring in terms of mess. Small dry foods are obviously best, but may not sustain an entire flight. I tend to make sandwiches wrapped in reusable food wrap rather than lunch boxes for space.

I always bring bananas as it’s such a good filling food. Equally cut up grapes, dried raisins and compressed fruit bars are an amazing snack. I always bring their stainless water sippy cup to keep it cool and it is super easy to fill up in the airport to reduce waste.

Cabin crew are always helpful when it comes to assisting with warming drinks if needed, providing additional snacks and so on. And don’t forget to order a ‘toddler meal’ in advance! It’s a requirement for almost every airline and they will not have a toddler specific meal unless it is ordered beforehand.

Check out prices on reusable food grade cloth , compressed fruit bars , and stainless water sippy cups.

Be Prepared with New Travel Toys for Toddlers On Airplanes

Having new and engaging activities are key for 2-year-olds that find it hard to sit still. Every child is different when it comes to their interests but throwing just about everything at the situation to ensure success is the best way forward.

I am a big fan of the Keep em Quiet bags , produced in the UK. They are specifically designed to keep little ones of all ages entertained on a flight.

They come in different age groups, gender (also gender-neutral available), as well as the length of trip. If you are going away for a weekend they can be smaller and obviously a little cheaper in price.

They are stuffed full of activities such as mess-free painting, 3D puzzles, snacks, special colouring in and so on. This is definitely one of my top tips for flying with toddlers.

Find out more about Keep em Quiet bags here!

There are some similar travel-specific activity packs in Australia called Busy Bags worth checking out. They are ideal for travelling with toddlers on long haul flights. Likewise in the US, there is one made by Penguin Travel.

You can check out the US version here ! My only criticism with these packs is related to the waste, although many things are reusable such as the re-stickable stickers etc, the Keep Em Quiet bags do produce a lot of plastic waste.

We have also recently discovered these great little globe packs which are designed with your destination in mind. They contain a passport with the country’s flag, and activities designed to introduce your child to the country you will be visiting!

Making your Own Activity Packs

If you don’t have access to one of the travel-specific activity bags, a simple trip to your local pound/ dollar /euro shop to buy a few low-cost items to make up your own activity bag is always an option.

Playdough is a great and cheap toy to bring along and it is easy to make your own. It is extremely versatile and toddlers could spend hours playing with it. A favourite game to pass the time onboard is to bring smaller toys along and hide them inside.

Siblings can play this together which gives you a few minutes of breathing room.

You can also hit up Amazon for some amazing toddler plane toys. Only give them to the kids when they are on board so they will be a novelty. We’ve rounded up a list of our favourite travel toys for toddlers here.

Don’t be afraid to be creative either. There is sure to be something around you to use for entertainment. A blanket can be used for a peek a boo or even letting a toddler button and unbutton a cardigan can keep them busy for a while or used as a distraction.

AMAZON FIRE TABLET

The whole idea is to reduce screen time which I love. However, we do bring an Amazon Fire tablet with us as a last resort, it can be quite handy to get our little ones to snuggle down to sleep, especially on a long haul flight with toddlers.

The reason I specifically love the Amazon Fire tablet is because it can be controlled by parents, with very specific child-friendly and educative apps.

We can also download movies before our trip which has saved the day a few times. If your toddler can’t sit through a whole film then download a few episodes from their favourite series.

You can check out prices on Amazon Fire tablets here .

Don’t forget to bring headphones along so you don’t disturb the other passengers. Bluetooth headphones are great as they can move around without the fear of the wire coming out.

Make Sure to Pack In Flight Sleep Aids

So now that we’ve dealt with snacks and activities, let’s move on to sleeping aids. Getting a toddler asleep on a plane can be a challenge at the best of times.

We all know comfort and minimal stimulation is key when it comes to getting our little ones to have sweet dreams. For most of us, if it’s ‘sleepy sleepy’ time on a flight, it can often be the most agonising time for us as parents.

I’ve often paced up and down, stroked my little ones head to no avail. From the bright lights, people chatting and just being in a new environment can be so tough. Having a sleeping aid is key and really helpful if your little one has their own seat.

Check out this post for some of the best travel bassinets for newborns and toddlers.

Additionally, if you are taking a long flight, it may be better to opt for an overnight flight. Not only is there more chance your little one will drift off, but the lights on the plane are usually dimmed. This encourages other passengers to speak in hushed voices and creates a better sleep environment.

If it is a short flight then it may not matter as much, however, if your toddler sticks to their nap schedule consider a flight around nap time. However, don’t stress if they don’t go down as we all know how hard it is to sleep on a plane.

A few other tricks you could try are having little one dressed in pyjamas or putting them on while you are on the plane. If you read a book before sleep time, then bring their favourite book along. The trick is trying to keep to the same routine. It may not always work, but anything is worth a shot.

Plane Pal For Flying with a Toddler

I have tried out both the Plane Pal and the JetKids BedBox . They are both fantastic options to create a first-class bed for your toddler on a long haul flight. Many airlines accept them, however, there are a handful that do not allow it, so it’s worth checking before investing.

Plane Pal is a toddler travel pillow for the airplane that fills the legroom space in front of the seat and creates a flat surface for your little one to stretch out. It packs away nicely and is not too big to carry around.

Jet Kid BedBox For Flying with a Toddler

The JetKids BedBox is quite a different product!! It is a mini wheelie suitcase that also acts as a scooter and is an amazing way of getting through the airport if your little one has the stability to sit on it.

There is space inside that can be used to store an activity bag, some snacks and a change of clothing.

When on board the suitcase has a third function, again, filling the legroom space in front of the seat  and creating a flat surface for little ones to stretch out.

This product is quite expensive, however, if you travel often I think it’s worth every penny. Here is my full review of the Jet Kids Bed Box .

 Bassinet Shade For Travelling with a Toddler on a Plane

If your toddler is under two, you may be lucky enough to bag a bassinet seat. Priority is generally given to younger babies. Likewise, if your kids are anything like my tall kids they may not fit in the bassinet.

The best airline for a toddler bassinet solution is British Airways. They have a reclined seat option as opposed to the box and is literally perfect for kids ages around one to 18 months roughly.

Another great product is the Cozigo which has a double function! It can cover a stroller as a sun and light protection but can also pop up over a bassinet on a flight.

Keeping those hideously bright lights on a flight is the hardest part and Cozigo is a great option to shade your toddler or baby. I have a full review of the product here .

Is Booking An Extra Seat worth it When Flying with a Toddler?

Any flight with a toddler is going to be made easier if they sleep. If your toddler is under two years old you may be tempted to have them in your lap. This is great at cutting costs for short-haul flights.  

However, for long haul flights, the extra space is worth the money. In fact, children still get a discount on most seat prices.

Domestic flights can sometimes have a 50% discount so it is worth checking before you make a hasty decision.

Having an extra seat onboard not only gives you additional space, you will also need it if you are using a JetKids BedBox or toddler travel pillow . As well as setting up a bed on board, they can also prevent toys and other items from falling on the floor and having to be sanitised again.

Post-pandemic there are many other reasons to purchase an extra seat. In your row of three seats, you only want to be sitting beside family.

If you are travelling as a family of three and your toddler is on your lap, there may be another passenger in the empty seat. 

You may get lucky and have an extra seat free of charge, however, this is not guaranteed. Paying for the extra seat gives you and your family a little extra privacy.

As soon as you board, disinfect the trays and armrests to give you some peace of mind. If you have the row to yourselves you won’t have to keep reaching for the hand sanitiser. 

Passengers are only permitted to walk up and down the aisle to use the toilets. No more walking the aisle to keep your toddler entertained. This extra space is also ideal for your toddler to stretch their legs and provide a little more breathing space. 

Familiar Toys and Blankets

Don’t forget the all-important familiar cuddly toys and a lightweight but warm blanket. Those familiar smells and comforts from home are always a winner. I find a fleece toddler blanket really good at compacting down into my hand luggage without taking up too much space.

Travel pillows are a great choice if you are unable to purchase a JetKids BedBox or inflatable bed. We all know how uncomfortable it can be to sleep on an airplane. 

A little extra chin and neck support can go a long way. They are also easy to hook on to your hand luggage and incredibly light. Choose one that is breathable and designed for toddlers to use. 

 How To Navigate The Airport with a Toddler

So now that you’ve made the all-important preparations at home for the flight, there are quite a few things you can do once you arrive at the airport.

From scoring an extra seat at check-in, to making the most of free time before the flight, I have you covered! Make sure to arrive with plenty of time to clear security, have something to eat and play before boarding.

FLYING WITH A TODDLER CAR SEAT

Most airlines provide a seat belt for lap infants babies and toddlers under 2. All flying toddlers over 2 must be in their own seats.

Many of the Northern American Airlines do not provide the seat belt , however, they are available online and could be an alternate option to flying with toddler car seats. You can buy a seat belt here .

Some parents choose to take a car seat when flying with a toddler on board. They purchase a seat and install them just like a car seat. The idea is it gives the child the same protection as a car journey. However, this is not a requirement (at the time of writing this).

BEST CAR SEAT FOR TRAVELLING

Having recently flown to London from Abu Dhabi with four kids, as you can imagine, we were laden down with a lot of luggage. The majority of it being child travel accessories that always seem to be the bulkiest and most difficult of items to travel with.  

This journey we had the chance to test out the new RyRy Scallop portable car seat . It is a very compact child car seat suitable for children up to 105cm in height and 18kg in weight. This cleverly designed car seat actually folds up nicely and can be converted into a backpack to keep your hands free which is always a bonus when travelling with children.  

Weighing 9kg, the backpack is comfortable to wear and comes with a cover to keep it clean on the journey. The straps connect/disconnect with a turn and clip action, and can be packed away neatly inside the cover ready to be checked in as were doing an international flight.  

Our little boy found the seat very comfortable to sit in and fell asleep on the journey to and from the airport. We also found the seat easy to fix into the car as it can be fitted with the isofix connections and also the standard seatbelt harness.  

Overall, we found the seat to be really compact, comfortable to sit in and transport on your back when on the move with children.  

We have taken our car seats away if we happen to be renting a car for example, but we haven’t installed them onboard. Every airline I have ever been on, allowed us to check our car seats in for free. If you are not sure whether you want to bring your car seat on holiday, check out this post.

I prefer to hold my toddler on my lap with the seat belt, especially useful when I need to breastfeed on take-off and landing for his ears to relieve the pressure.

I do understand those parents that prefer to bring the car seat on board for flying with a toddler. Car seats can offer that extra protection, and, well, I guess being in their own seat contains them somewhat.

If you are checking your car seat in, be sure to place it in a protective travel bag . We have all seen how our suitcases are thrown around. The last thing any parent needs is a broken car seat.

A protective travel bag can help soften some of the blows your car seat is sure to face when it is being loaded and off loaded on the plane.

TRAVEL STROLLER AIRPLANE ADVICE

We tend to always bring a travel stroller with us. Depending on our mood, and if our toddler is sleeping or not, we make a call at the check-in desk whether we will take it with us to the gate.

I find it quite handy, especially if I am travelling solo . I throw my hand luggage in there whilst my toddler is walking. If you are flying with twins, having a double stroller will make things much easier.

I check it in if I don’t have too much hand luggage. If I have a tonne of stuff, it’s just handy to have wheels to help. The less I have with me, and the more hands-free I’m going to be, the more likely I am to check it in at the desk.

It is wise to remember it may not be returned to you when you disembark. It depends on the airport. If you feel you will need it when you get off the plane right away, ask at the check-in desk. 

Sometimes they can put in a special request. Otherwise, you often have to collect it with the rest of your luggage or even from the oversized luggage station.

Some airports used to provide rentals, however, due to the pandemic, this is no longer possible. 

One of my favourite things on the market right now is the GB Pocket Stroller . It folds up so small and can be taken onboard. I find that feature really handy, especially if you’ll have a connecting flight and a potentially long walk through a terminal to your next gate. It really is tiny when folded up!

For more information on the GB Pocket Stroller, click here .

If this is a little out of your price range take a look at the Baby Joy lightweight travel stroller . It doesn’t fold down as small as the GB Pocket Stroller however it is light and compact. 

It meets the airline requirements for carry on luggage so it can be taken on board. Most importantly it reclines for sleeping toddlers.

For more information on the Baby Joy lightweight travel stroller click here .

Dream on Me has released a new innovative stroller which has won a few awards. It is a budget stroller and has a host of features. In fact, it is a stroller, scooter, and rider all in one. 

It is compact and easy to fold down and can be attached to another stroller or even a shopping cart. 

Check out the Dream on Me Stroller here .

 CHECK-IN DESK REQUESTS

Like I mentioned about the sleeping aids, the ideal scenario when flying with a toddler is to have their own seat. Airplane travel with toddlers can be stifling at the best of times.

You know how it is with them clambering all over you.  I never bought a seat for my kids when they were under 2. However, I always asked if they had a spare seat at check in.

When flying with a toddler, most of the time we were lucky enough to score the spare seat on board and so we could make sure our little one was comfortable and had space.

For the few times, we were not so lucky, I had my baby carrier to hand to help get little one to sleep. Obviously, an entire night flight is not so comfortable with a toddler on your front but the baby carrier definitely made it easier.

When it comes to bulk head seats you may be able to reserve them before you arrive at the airport. If you haven’t then the seats in the front row usually have a little extra legroom. If they are not available then consider asking for the seats at the back of the plane. 

They are closer to the toilets and could be great if you need to make a run for it. Other than that, request a window seat for your toddler. You may not need to as most airlines try to keep families together. However, it doesn’t do any harm to confirm at check-in.

Window seats can offer a few minutes of distraction, especially when taking off and landing when you are trying to keep them in their seats.

You may also be allowed to check-in any extra hand luggage. You are going to want to keep your backpack, however, if your partner has a bag then that can be checked in for no additional charge. 

This is not true for every airline, however, if the flight is full then there may not be enough room in the overhead lockers for passengers bags. Even if it is not, many airline staff understand the need for parents to be as hands-free as possible.

Getting Through Airport Security with a Toddler

Family security lines can be amazing. I recently travelled through Barcelona Airport where they had a playpen right at the security line.

In Barcelona airport, they also had a low-level machine to push everything, from our buggy and suitcase through for scanning. It made it so easy for us.

However, in some airports, the family security lines are not always the quickest. Have a look around to see which line is moving and head there. 

If there is no family security line, there may be a fast queue. Most passengers have to pay an additional charge. Airport security can be very helpful. Many times they allow families to use the fast queue.

If your toddler is being a little impatient or you are running late, there is no harm in asking. The worst they can say is no.

Gatwick Airport can be hit and miss, sometimes the line is so busy with families it ends up taking longer. The best thing to do is assess each time and see if the better option is to take the regular queue.

PREPARING FOR INSPECTION AT AIRPORT SECURITY 

Try to avoid extra hassle at security and get the long flight with a toddler off to the best start! Liquids will be tested if they are your little one’s food and drink for the journey. I always forget at least one thing at the bottom of the bag!

Electronics have to be removed and put in their own tray. If you have a tablet in each bag, this is going to be a hassle. Try to have them altogether so they can be easily taken out and easily put back in.

Don’t forget to consider your outfit carefully.

Wear things you are not going to have to take off, this is not fun whilst chasing a toddler.

For example, I try not to wear boots and a belt because I know I have to take them off! I keep my passport hanging around my neck in one of those special zip pouches. Again having everything to hand is really helpful.

Being organised before you hit security is key to a smooth transfer. Along with liquids in clear plastic bags, all electronics must go through separately too. Having your tablets and laptops together makes it easier to put them all in the tray and repack them after they have been scanned.

If your toddler still drinks formula or you are carrying breast milk then there is no limit for children under the age of two. This also applies to food and water. 

They may ask to test the formula or breastmilk before letting you go through with it. Some airports may allow water to be taken through for children over two. It is not guaranteed though. 

There may be a place to fill up bottles on the other side.

LOOK FOR FAMILY FACILITIES WHEN FLYING WITH TODDLERS

Most airports have an area for kids to play. Look at the information screens to find them when traveling with toddlers. Some are better than others, Dubai Airport is a favourite of ours as well as the soft play at Heathrow Terminal 2 .

I find so many of the western airports go the extra mile during school breaks. For example in Heathrow in some restaurants, kids eat free at some restaurants in the terminal.

I prefer to eat a good meal before boarding the plane. As strict vegans, the food options are not always that good so we always have our big bag of snacks to fall back on.

If there are no play areas available then simply walking around the airport can keep your little one entertained and help burn off some energy.

Navigating the Airport with a Toddler

Airports are busy places. There is a lot going on and they can be a difficult place to navigate with a toddler. Parents can have a difficult time with toddlers who don’t want to sit in a stroller. Toddlers are not great at keeping up and are very easily distracted. 

The gates can also be far away. Sometimes you can even expect to walk around twenty minutes to arrive at the gate. If your toddler is one who refuses a carrier or stroller there are a few things on the market which may help those little legs.

A case with wheels allows kids to sit on it and is a great way to keep things light hearted when you are in a rush at the airport. The case allows enough space for kids to pack some of their favourite toys and activities as well as room for a spare change of clothes. 

Toddlers can sit on it and use their legs to push it along. However, as parents, we know this won’t last. The case has another feature where kids can put their feet up and parents can pull them along. For safety, there is also a strap which goes around the back to prevent falling. 

There are two different sizes available. The smaller size, 20 inches, is accepted on many airlines. However, always check their regulations before flying.

Check out this ride along suitcase with wheels here.

If your toddler loves scooters then they may enjoy taking one along to the airport. This ride-on suitcase looks like any other carry on from the front. At the back, there is a fold-down wheel which transforms this luggage into a scooter. 

There are many different designs to choose from and there are some led lights on the wheels. The telescoping handle means it can be adjusted to suit toddlers of all heights. 

The case doesn’t hold a lot. However, there would be enough room for a few toys and a change of clothes. 

Click here to see the Ride-On Suitcase Scooter.

BEST TIME TO BOARD A LONG FLIGHT WITH TODDLER

Airlines always prioritise young families to board, however that’s not always helpful! I find letting our kids run around the terminal and burn their energy off is a better starting point to get them to sit down and put their belt on.

Having that extra time whilst everyone else boards can be tricky in my opinion, so this is always our default approach. In some cases, if our toddler is on the verge of falling asleep, we board early and make the most of settling in peacefully.

Some families split up at the gate. One parent takes all the luggage on while the other plays with the toddler at the gate. This is a great idea if you are planning to wipe down the armrests and trays with cleaning and disinfectant wipes .

Use this time to take your toddler to the toilet as well. The toilets are out of use until the plane has taken off and the seat belt signs are off. This means there may be a long wait if they have to go as soon as they board.

ON BOARD A FLIGHT WITH A TODDLER

Don’t be afraid to ask the crew for help if you are flying with kids! If they see you are flying with a toddler, they will normally give you a kiddie pack, if they forget just ask because it can usually kill at least half an hour.

I try to prepare my little ones for wearing their seat belt and provide all the distractions possible during that time. In reality, it’s only during take-off, landing and turbulence that we really need our toddler to conform so distraction is key.

If my kids want to walk up and down I let them. Trying to contain them is really challenging and can be harder doing that than simply letting them stretch their legs.

It’s nicer for everyone involved, people prefer to see a happy child zooming past as opposed to a contained upset toddler in the seat behind. Drip feed snacks and activities throughout the flight, one by one.

Likewise, keep everyone hydrated with water and make sure to have enough diapers and change of clothes for any accidents. don’t forget to include a change of clothes for yourself either.

Leaving the Plane with a Toddler

Before kids, you may have been that person who stood up first and tried to get off the airplane as quickly as possible. However, after kids, you are more than likely going to want to wait until most of the passengers have disembarked. 

This is because it can be quite stressful trying to get all your luggage from the overhead lockers with a toddler while impatient passengers stand behind you. 

You are also going to want to keep your distance as well, so take a break while everyone else gets off the plane. 

Depending on where you are going and the airport, you may have to get a bus to the terminal. If you were able to carry on your stroller then this can be a great help. If not, a carrier is perfect to pop your toddler in while you hold the luggage on the bus. 

Family-Friendly Airlines when Flying with a Toddler

Some airlines are more family-friendly than others. This is due not just for the facilities onboard the plane, but also luggage allowance.

This may surprise you however, some airlines charge for parents to take a stroller or even a car seat with them. Some allow you to take both free of charge and there are a few which allow a travel cot to also be included. 

Most major airlines give parents the choice of two extra pieces of luggage at check-in. 

If you have opted to have your toddler on your lap, then check if they are allowed their own luggage allowance. It should be easy to find this information from the airline’s website. However, if you are at all unsure give them a quick call to ask. 

Additionally, some airlines provide some activities for children, while others don’t. You are probably going to be loaded with activities and this may not be an important factor, however, airlines which provide them are more likely to have other perks for families. 

Paperwork you Need When Flying with a Toddler

Many parents are unsure whether their toddler needs to have a passport when they fly. If you are flying internationally then all passengers need to have their own passport. 

If you are from the US and flying domestically, a birth certificate may be enough for all children under the age of 18. Be aware though some airlines may still ask for a passport. 

It is always a good idea to carry your child’s birth certificate when flying. This is especially important if you and your toddler have a different surname. 

Parents who are flying solo may also need a notarized permission to fly documents from the other partner. These are very common in South America, Europe and South Africa.

Flying nowadays requires more documents than ever. Before it was just passports and tickets. Now there are PCR tests, proof of vaccinations and even locator forms. 

You may also need to show your travel insurance at the check-in desk. Many countries will only allow entry to foreign citizens if they have adequate travel insurance COVID cover.

If you are not sure what documents you require, be sure to call the airline at least a week before you fly. This should give you enough time to get everything together. 

Having these documents all in one place can make check in and passport control go smoothly.

OTHER ESSENTIAL ITEMS WHEN FLYING WITH A TODDLER

As stated above, preparation is key for any flight with a toddler. As parents we have to prepare for every scenario while trying to fit it all into our hand luggage and staying under that 100ml limit.

A backpack is most parents preferred choice as it allows them to keep their hands free. Having one with lots of storage compartments is perfect for keeping yourself organized.

Use your backpack to store all of your essential items. The items which you may need to get to right away. Any other non-essential items can be stored in another carry on if needed.

Carry a few wet bags with you in case of any accidents. These are also great if you are cloth diapering and don’t want to switch to disposables on your trips.

The trays on an airplane can be a little too high for toddlers. This can make activities a little difficult and may even lead to tantrums. A great item to carry on is a kids travel tray .

The tray has tons of pockets and colouring pencils and books can be stored there too. Along with cup holders, and there is a place for a tablet. In fact, there is more than enough room for all the activities you brought with you. 

It is easy to fold down, easy to carry and most importantly waterproof. They are great for airplanes and can also be used on long car trips too.

For toddlers new to potty training this may be their first experience using public restrooms. It can be a daunting experience for them as the toilets are considerably larger than the small potty they use at home. 

Some parents opt to use nappies or diapers for the journey, while others carry a folding potty seat with them. It is best to try it out at home for a few weeks for toddlers to get comfortable with it.

If your child takes any medication make sure to carry it in your hand luggage and have the prescriptions with you, just in case. The last thing you need is your luggage not making it to the other side and having to try and find the right medication in a foreign country.

A small first aid kit is a great item to have. There are limits to what you can pack. Scissors and liquids over 100ml have to go in hold luggage. However, a few plasters and a small bottle of kids paracetamol could come in handy.

These are great for your trip as well. Landing in a foreign country and trying to find the nearest pharmacy can be daunting. Throwing in a foreign language and trying to make sense of instructions can turn into a headache. 

Having a few essential medicines can prevent this and leave you with one less thing to worry about.

HOW TO HANDLE DELAYS WHEN FLYING WITH A TODDLER

There is nothing worse than arriving at the airport and discovering your flight is delayed. Twenty or thirty minutes is tolerable, however, a few hours delay with a toddler can feel like your whole world is crashing down.

You are worried you will run out of snacks or worse yet activities for the journey.

This can be difficult to navigate, however, there are a few tricks to help you get through it. The first thing you want to do is eat at the airport and keep the snacks for the plane. Many airlines offer a free food and drink voucher for delays so make the most of it.

Try and use the facilities at the airport as much as you can. You want the activities to be used on the airplane. However, if this is not possible try and stretch them out. Don’t forget about the simple things either. Some toddlers might enjoy watching the planes on the runway, while others might want to look at the toys in the toy shop.

All the sights and sounds found in the airport are new and exciting for many toddlers, so take advantage of your surroundings and let them explore.

Flying with a Toddler During the Covid Pandemic

The COVID pandemic has made travelling with little ones more stressful for parents. It is a perfectly natural reaction as we want to keep our children safe.

Whether your toddler has to wear a mask onboard is dependent on age. The WHO recommends all children under the age of two should not wear a mask at any time. 

There are many reasons for this including the size of the airways and the risk of suffocation. If your toddler is over two they may not have to wear a mask on board. Some airlines recommend children over six wear them, while others prefer children over two to wear a mask while they are on board. 

As the rules are at the airline’s discretion then it is best to check with them at the check-in desk or in their terms and conditions. 

The best thing parents can do is to keep their hands and their children’s hands clean. This is simple to do with soap and water, however, it is not always convenient to find handwashing facilities. 

Carrying some hand sanitiser is great for using after security and check-in. To always make sure it is on hand, have one which attaches to your bag so it is easy to use. 

Cleaning and disinfectant wipes can be used to disinfect the seating area and trays. The airline has more than likely done this before you boarded, however, there is no harm in doing it again. 

Have the wipes to hand when visiting the toilets to give the area a quick wipe down or when using the changing facilities.

There is also a great technique to use to ensure you are wiping the area correctly.  The trick is to start at the furthest corner and wipe in an S pattern. The reason for this is to ensure you never wipe over the same spot. 

You may want to also sanitise your toddler’s toys and dummies before boarding. In fact, it is best to keep them separate and to carry a few extra dummies or pacifiers as they are sure to fall on the ground. 

The window seat is considered to be the safest seat on a plane so it may be an idea to have your toddler sitting there. Sitting in the window seat limits your toddler’s exposure to others.  If they were sitting in the aisle seat they would be across from a stranger and the crew coming by with snacks.

Even though your toddler is not vaccinated, there is usually no need for PCR tests or even quarantine if they are travelling with vaccinated parents or parents with a negative PCR test. 

Check the entry requirements for the country you are visiting before setting off.

TIPS FOR SELF CARE WHEN TRAVELING WITH TODDLERS

Make sure you don’t forget about yourself when travelling with a toddler on a plane.

Stay well hydrated, take time for lots of leg movements to prevent blood clots and try to get your head down for a sleep while your little one is. Or, if not a sleep, then have a glass of wine, relax and watch a movie.

If you are flying with someone else, take turns. This is the best advice I can give to you having taken my two kids around the world a number of times.

I find that the most draining part about flying with a toddler is the amount of energy you have to put into the entertainment. We rarely have too many tears or tantrums onboard if we make the necessary effort.

If things don’t run as smoothly as you would like, try not to worry about everyone else on board. The most stressful thing about flying with a toddler is trying to make sure they don’t disturb others. However, this is not always possible. 

We can only do our best, hopefully with the tips above your flight is a little less stressful and you feel a little more prepared.

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FLYING WITH A TODDLER CHECKLIST

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Saturday 24th of August 2019

This is a great post. I am flying to Pennyslvania on Sept 1 with two small toddlers. I have booked two flights since it is a longhaul destination. For both the airport and the flight, I will be armed with flight activity packs and books plus 1-2 toys for both kids. I will call on Monday to find out about the entertainment system onboard the aircraft as well. Can anyone suggest films that are appropriate for toddlers to watch? Is the food onboard the flight nice or not? Do flight crew still provide coloring sheets or should I bring my own aboard the plane? I love your tips.

Thursday 12th of September 2019

Hi, I hope the flight went well. Sorry I didn't catch this in time!

Tuesday 26th of March 2019

Thank you so much for all the tips! I am flying with my husband and our two kids to France. (One 2 months old and one 20 months old) We didn’t buy a seat for them so we will have them on our lap. I’m nervous about the trip but it’s an overnight direct flight, hopefully we can get that bassinet and may be an extra seat if the plane is not full but I know it will be unlikely. Can I contact you with some questions before we leave if some come up? Thank you!

Travel Mad Mum

Sunday 31st of March 2019

I'm happy to try to answer any questions you have. You might want to check out our Flying With A Baby post as well if you haven't already. Good luck with the flight!

Monday 15th of October 2018

This is a great blog and I hope to put many of your tips in to practice. What would you advise for getting a 2.5 year old comfy on a 8hr then 17hr flight as we can’t take on a fly legs up or similar - emirates have said no.

Monday 1st of October 2018

Thank you - really helpful post :-)

Thursday 6th of September 2018

I know this is an old post but just wanted to say thanks for the tips! I am flying with my 18 month old later this month - I am panicking already because he can't sit still for more than a minute. This makes me feel like we will be ok!

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12 Tips for Navigating Airports with Kids

Making your way through a busy airport with little ones in tow can be made easier by considering these tips.

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Family standing at baggage claim in airport, portrait

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Negotiating airports can be stressful enough without the added responsibility of children, but with a little planning, it can be a fun family experience that introduces kids to a love of travel and a taste of responsibility and independence. In my years of traveling as both a single dad and with my wife with three kiddos in tow, here are some tips that have worked for me that hopefully will help you have an enjoyable time introducing your child or children to the excitement of airports and flying.

1: In the days leading up to your trip, sit in the rear seat with your child as your partner drives around town during your family outings. This allows you to talk to your child about what it will be like on the airplane, and allow you to see some of the logistics you’ll encounter, such as the space you’ll have to work with. Doing these “dry runs” will make your child more comfortable and excited about traveling when the day comes, and give you some insight as to what to expect and how to better prepare.

Young boy waiting at airport boarding hour.

Photo by: Getty Images/Carol Yepes

Getty Images/Carol Yepes

2: Having your child pick out a small backpack that fits them well gives them a sense of trip buy-in and importance. Have them wear it in the days beforehand to get used to it and identify any issues (such as overloading). Getting fun, useful things for the plane such as a water bottle with a clip that can hook onto the seat will add to their excitement and feeling of being “grown up.” My kids enjoyed having control over a small flashlight and glow sticks as a comfort against dark airplanes, and I made sure the light didn’t bother other passengers. Make sure you have a flashlight, too, to find items under the seat even during daytime flights. Cell phones have flashlights, sure, but that uses valuable battery life.

older sister is welcoming her baby girl with arms outstretched and matching clothes at station

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Getty Images/FluxFactory

3: Make a note of what your kids are wearing before arriving at the airport, and consider even taking a photo of them. Bold color schemes can help parents quickly locate their kids in the event they wander off in the second that you’re checking the gate number. Dark outfits hide stains better. A change of clothes in your carry on for both kids and parents in the event of spilled drinks, or worse, is always a good idea.

4: “Never pass up a restroom” is the parent’s creed, but never more so when flying. When boarding or choosing your seats online, consider getting a seat close to the restrooms. Even if your child says they don’t have to go, it’s good to get up and walk on flights and gives them the opportunity to see the plane. If you have children in diapers, check beforehand to see which bathrooms have changing tables (they’re usually located in the front of the plane). Remember when flushing the toilet on airplanes that the sound can be alarming (even for adults), so warn your child beforehand and close the lid. It goes without saying to carry ample cleaning wipes and hand sanitizer. My go-to kit is kept in a clear zip bag with wipes, hand sanitizer, diapers and diaper bags that I can grab at a moment’s notice. I also carry children's' pain medication and ear drops in case air pressure becomes an issue. Another trick for dealing with air pressure pain that I remember from overseas trips in my youth: Ask the flight attendant for two cups filled with napkins or towels soaked in hot water and drained, then place the cups over your child's ears. As the heat cools it creates a slight vacuum that helps equalize ear pressure.

5: One invaluable piece of gear my wife and I used with our young sons was a  foldable garden or sports wagon  instead of a stroller. It's not the product's intended use, but I could pull both of my young boys in the wagon while I wore a backpack and pulled a roller bag, and we even had it worked to where the oldest could lay down while the infant rode in his car seat on top. These wagons stow secure and flat, and gate-checking them as we would a stroller was never a problem. We could whisk through airports with a small footprint and not have to carry any kids. Also, check out these handy carriers for toting your child in his or her car seat through the airport.

Photo by: Getty Images/Caiaimage/Chris Ryan

Getty Images/Caiaimage/Chris Ryan

6 : Use travel to introduce new responsibilities to your kids. Print two copies of their boarding passes, and give them a set to keep track of (keep the other handy just in case). Have them pack their small backpack with their things (with oversight) the day before the trip, and keep in mind any security restrictions (anything resembling a weapon, liquids, gels, etc.). Ask them questions and what they think of the airport to engage them and see where their thought processes are at. For older kids, ask them to figure out gate numbers and shuttle schedules. I’ve found that the more kids are made a part of the experience, the less bored and better behaved they’ll be, and they’ll learn to become skilled, independent travelers.

Photo by: Getty Images/Mark Edward Atkinson

Getty Images/Mark Edward Atkinson

7: It should go without saying, but video devices should have earphones. This is a courtesy to other travelers, but also earphones cut down on the sensory overload found at airports and airplanes, help your child relax and (fingers crossed) even fall asleep on flights. If you don’t have tried and true  headphones for your kids  already, buy some before your departure date to avoid airport prices and to make sure they comfortably fit your child’s head. Have two kids watching the same show? Get a headphone  splitter  so that they (or you) can both listen.

8: If you are traveling with children that have a different last name than yours, make sure to check well ahead of time for any supporting documentation you may need for domestic and international flights, such as copies of birth certificates (having a copy of your kid’s birth certificates is always a good idea when flying). While  TSA doesn’t require identification for minors , boarding policies vary from airline to airline. Many require a doctor’s letter stating that it’s okay for infants 14 days or younger to fly, and valid proof of age is required for lap children. Passports are required for every person regardless of age traveling internationally. TSA agents sometimes ask kids a question or two to be friendly, and also to read if anything seems amiss. I tell my kids beforehand that TSA agents are friendly and like to chat. All TSA checkpoints have a designated family lane (denoted by a green dot) that are designed to accommodate those traveling with kids. Per the TSA's (humorous)  holiday blog : “Frequent flyers hate it when they’re in line behind a family, and guess what... families hate it when the frequent flyer is behind them tapping their foot and sighing. That’s why we created Family Lanes. They’re designed to let families take their time and ask questions without feeling rushed by the experienced frequent flyers who can zip through a checkpoint in no time.”

9: If your child can walk, they’ll have to pass through security devices by themselves, unless the parent requests a pat-down. Infants are carried through security by their parent. Children who require a wheelchair or walker will not be removed from their device, and will be screened by an officer. Infants may be carried through in baby slings, but additional screening may be requested by TSA. Children will never be separated from parents, but the quick procedure can be unnerving none the less. Prepare your child before arriving at the airport by explaining what will happen. I called the scanners the “magic portals to the airport,” and my kids always enjoy it. Children 12 and younger can leave their shoes, jackets and hats on. I always wear a jacket with pockets that I can quickly dump any items into and send through the x-ray machine so that I’m not fumbling and leave my kids waiting on the other side. Strollers are folded and sent through the x-ray machine if they fit, and inspected by an officer if they're too large for the machine.

10: While liquids and gels in excess of 3.4 ounces per container are not permitted to pass through TSA security, an exception is made for  baby formula, breast milk and ice packs  when traveling with an infant. Notify a TSA agent that you're carrying larger quantities of liquids, and have them easily accessible. A TSA agent will conduct additional screening of your items, but you'll be able to recover them past security. If you're traveling with liquid medication or necessary liquid food in excess of 3.4-ounces per container for older children, the procedure is the same. If possible, a doctor's note explaining the situation can be helpful.

11: Many airports have play areas where kids can burn off energy, and parents can take a breather, such as  Chicago’s O’Hare International Airport  and  DFW . Most airport websites have excellent sections devoted to traveling with kids and available facilities such as family bathrooms, playgrounds, nursing rooms and other related content. Before traveling to the airport, find areas of interest near your airline’s terminal, and work in extra time to enjoy what’s offered, if possible.

Male pilot explaining control panel to boy in airplane cockpit

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Getty Images/Hero Images

12 : When I was a child in the last century kids were given plastic wings and a tour of the cockpit during flight. Times have changed, but the experience of being a child on a plane is still as fun and exciting. Looking down on the tops of clouds or seeing city lights from 26,000 feet is still magical. Many airlines at least have stickers to give children before the flight, and often times pilots are happy to show children the cockpit at the gate before they have to secure their door; ask a flight attendant when boarding to see if that would be possible. Take advantage of the many videos that explain airports and airplanes to young children. Who knows? The excitement of an airplane trip may spark a lifelong love of science and travel for your daughter or son.

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The Ultimate Guide to Flying With a Baby

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Flying with a baby for the first time can be as momentous as their first steps, first bite of first solid food, or first drop off at daycare. And like all those milestones, parents can feel understandably freaked out beforehand. No one, not even your baby themself, knows how a child will react to being on an airplane for the first time. And no matter what happens, one thing's for sure: you'll be stuck in a cabin full of strangers for at least a couple hours while you find out.

But dread not—your child may love air travel , for starters—and even if they don't, you will get through it. With a little planning, the right gear, and a willingness to adapt accordingly, flying with a baby or young kids can be prepared for, and perhaps, easier than you think. Below, what you need to know before flying with a baby or young kids, according to their extremely well-traveled parents.

Is it safe to fly with a newborn?

For infants, the safety of air travel is largely dependent on their health . Jay L. Hoecler, M.D. tells Mayo Clinic . It's up to your doctor's discretion, but full-term newborns who are at least 7 days old are generally safe to fly; however, most parents wait for a few weeks after birth. Premature or preterm babies may require more time for air travel clearance—at least, until their lungs or heart mature. In any case, take precaution and clear your new baby’s air travel with a trusted healthcare professional before booking the flight.

How to prepare

After you purchase your tickets, download Flying With Baby by Meg Collins, the blogger behind a relatable mom survival guide Lucie’s List . Collins claims, accurately, to be the voice of reason about everything: “ticketing, check-in, car seats, feeding, napping, and all the other stuff that makes your brain explode.”

There's no sure way to prepare a baby ahead of time, but if you're traveling with a toddler or an elementary school-aged child, you may need to do a little incepting—i.e., plant the idea that flying is fun! and make a game of it at home beforehand. Traveler contributor Debbie Dubrow gave us some timeless tips a few years ago that still hold true:

• Talk about your trip and your flight ahead of time, focusing on the aspects that are new to your child or might cause them concern.

2. Read stories about flying. Try, the classic Airplanes by Byron Barton or the 2024 release Ready to Soar by Cori Doerrfeld for toddlers. Richard Scarry's A Day at the Airport is fun and best for older kids. If you’re headed to a new destination, make a trip to the library to pick up a few books set in that place.

3. Line up some dining chairs to make airplane seats, and act out how you should sit down and buckle up on a plane. Build a security checkpoint using a doorway as the metal detector and a cardboard box and towel as the conveyor belt and X-ray. Practice putting your child’s stuffed animal or blanket through the X-ray and getting it back on the other side. This can be a fun and engaging way for your child to act-out the protocols before heading to the airport.

4. Depending on their age, let your children help pack their carry-on bags (but secret away a few new toys in your own). That way, they’ll get to choose which items they just can’t live without, and you’ll get to set expectations about which toys are okay on the plane (leave the harmonica at home, please!).

What to pack

If this is your first time flying with a baby, it’s safe to say that you will bring significantly more items than you've flown with before. For optimal organization, create an itemized list of the major items (i.e., the car seat, stroller ); the bags you’re checking; and the bags you’re carrying on. Do a count of your bags like they’re children on a field trip when you get to the airport, get through security, and get off the plane. (If it sounds like overkill, think about what your trip might be like if you forget the one bag with your baby's favorite stuffed toy. Yeah.)

The go-to items we love the most

The Doona Infant Car Seat/Stroller (for infants up to 35 pounds) combines two of the most cumbersome items you have to bring on a trip. With the Doona, gate check the stroller, and leave the car seat at home. Uber drivers always get out of the car to open the trunk, assuming the stroller will need to go in the back—and are always amazed when you collapse the Doona and slide it into the backseat instead.

The Dohm sound machine helps little ones fall and stay asleep in new and strange places. “I bring my son’s Dohm everywhere with us," says Traveler contributor Lauren DeCarlo . "Hotels, my parents’ house. It’s essential.” You can also download white noise apps on your phone.

The Ergo Baby 360 Carrier is for newborn or toddlers, and known for airy support through the airport and the flight. Its light mesh material makes for necessary ventilation for both you and the baby. Not to mention, it’s strategically designed for lumbar support with double adjusters that tighten for parents in favor of lower back support, helping mitigate the pain caused by sitting on a plane. There’s also padded shoulder straps for your baby, a criss-cross option that buckles on the front, and a detachable storage pouch that can be helpful for more packing space.

A well-stocked diaper bag with enough wipes, diapers, and formula/breast milk/food to get you through the flight and an hours-long delay, minimum, is a must. Frequent flier, Skift aviation reporter, and father Brian Sumers recommends three days' worth of food for the baby to account for any mishaps. Make sure you also have basics like hand-sanitizer, scented diaper trash bags, a pacifier clip ("this will save you the horror of watching a pacifier drop to the airplane floor," says Traveler contributor and mom of three Juliana Shallcross ), and one new baby toy. "I still swear by the one-new-toy trick," Shallcross says. "Buy the baby one new toy specifically to open on the airplane. It will keep their attention for a little bit longer than if you brought an older toy. However, for young babies, you don't need much. All they really need is their bottle, maybe a pacifier, and a nice seat mate who makes funny faces."

The Doona stroller collapses into a car seat, eliminating the need to travel with both.

For little ones with their own seat, Britax Willow Grove SC Baby Travel System is an infant car seat and stroller combination device, suitable for newborns to children up to 50 lbs (so there’s much room for growth). For the airport, the all-wheel suspension and tough wheels ensures parents to stroll smoothly and steadily, while also providing an extra-large cargo area with five additional pockets for any smaller travel-must haves. The car seat clicks securely into the base, making the device easier to use. Just make sure to familiarize yourself with the travel system before the flight to ensure swift movement through the airport and plane. The Cares Airplane Safety Harness is the only FAA-approved harness for kids over the age of one, when they're big enough for their own seat but too small for the seatbelt to do any good.

A different outfit —for you—is a gift. "A change of clothes is a no-brainer for the baby who may have a diaper situation at some point during the flight," says Shallcross. "But if you can manage it, pack a T-shirt or leggings for yourself in your carry-on." You don't want to be stuck wearing a formula-stained shirt (or worse).

As for what to leave at home? Anything you can get where you’re going, like jars of baby food. Just make a beeline for a local grocery store once you arrive. It can also be fun seeing how other cultures and countries do the basics. (Fun fact: French diapers aren’t quite as absorbent as American ones. Who knew?)

Do babies need an ID?

Babies from the US don’t need an ID when flying domestically, per the TSA . This is actually true of anyone under the age of 18. But babies do need a passport to fly internationally.

To apply for a passport for your infant, both parents need to attend the appointment in person; if you’re the sole custodian of a child, you need to bring proof of that as well . You will also need the child’s birth certificate (original and a copy), your passports and US drivers’ licenses (and a copy), a completed DS-11 form , money for the fees (credit is not always accepted for the $80 standard fee and $35 acceptance fee—bring cash or your checkbook just in case), and—the best part—two identical 2x2 inch passport photos of your baby. There are websites dedicated to getting your infant to sit upright and still against a plain white backdrop for long enough to get a photo. Some companies, like epassport.com, will prepare your photos with a guarantee that your baby's photo won't be rejected (check your passport application location's policy on this, as some don't allow third parties to send in photos). If needed, you can add $60 to your application if expedited service is required. For the most up-to-date information on what documents are required for your child's first passport, be sure to check the US Department of State website .

Do babies need their own plane ticket?

It depends. On most airlines, babies under the age of two can sit in your lap on a flight, sometimes with a special lap belt that you attach to your seatbelt. You may have to pay a fee—primarily on international airlines—which can come with a special boarding pass. It helps to call the airline before booking to confirm. In fact, some require you to call their customer service line to add them as a “lap-infant.” Once the child turns two, they are required to have their own ticket.

Still, if you can swing it, we suggest purchasing your baby their own seat from the get-go. It will be more pleasant to have the extra space (and a buffer from other passengers) and, as Sumers says, it's safer: “You wouldn't hold your baby in your lap in a car, even if you were only going a mile away at 10 mph. So why would you hold your baby on an airplane racing on a runway at 150 mph? In severe turbulence, or in a survivable crash, you may not be not able to hold onto your baby.”

At the airport

When flying with kids, arrive early to the airport, so you have extra time to check in, get through security, and board the plane. Here's how to prepare, step-by-step.

If you have TSA PreCheck , children 12 and under can get in line with you and breeze on through. But for Global Entry , the baby needs its own account. Here’s how to apply.

When it comes to getting your stuff through, TSA checkpoints are “wildly inconsistent” across different airports in the US, says Shallcross. The good news is that breast milk and formula are some of the few items you're allowed to pack in your carry on in excess of the 3.4 oz liquid rule . "If you're traveling with breast milk or formula, note that you can carry-on, but you will most likely be on the receiving end of a pat-down," Shallcross notes. Having TSA PreCheck makes the process go a bit faster, and sometimes, in lieu of a screening, TSA will test to-go bottles of formula instead. International checkpoints also vary widely, but, often, jars of baby food and bottles will be screened.

As for the stroller you plan to gate check, know that it will have to go on the belt through the x-ray machine, like the rest of your bags. It may be pulled aside and tested or swabbed by a TSA agent.

Getting to the gate

Speaking of gate-checking: "As soon as you make it through security, head to your gate and get the gate tags for your stroller," says Shallcross. "If you wait until you board, the gate attendants may ask you to step aside and wait until they finish boarding the group, before they give you the tags."

And then there's the age-old question: Should you board in the first wave with your baby and toddlers? Most gate agents give you the option of early boarding—and with a newborn or infant, that's the way to go so you can get settled with bags stowed and essentials out for takeoff. But with an active toddler? That means you're on the plane for an extra 30 to 45 minutes, trying to contain their wild energy in a small space. No thanks.

If you're traveling with another adult, super traveler Sam Brown recommends dividing and conquering. One of you boards early with the bags; the other stays behind with the kids, letting them burn off energy at the gate until the last possible minute you can board. And, when traveling with two adults, “it’s helpful for one to go on with all the bags to place them in the overhead compartment,” says Condé Nast Traveler ’s Executive Editor and traveling super-mom of two, Erin Florio. “The other can stay with the kid(s) while they run around.”

Nursing, pumping, and feeding

If you need a quiet space to breastfeed before boarding, look for a Mamava Pod . They're designed to allow moms to nurse babies in private, they're free to use, and there's even room for another small child to hang out inside.

As for toddlers, “if you rely on the plane to refill the baby’s bottle, don’t—” says Florio. When finding that many airlines don’t offer milk onboard, Florio finds it’s best to purchase it in the terminal beforehand. She often requests for a terminal café to fill up two empty bottles and then brings them onboard.

The flight itself

The easiest way to keep a baby from crying during the flight is to give them milk or formula on takeoff and landing—the go-to move of parents for decades, as it helps babies adjust to the change in cabin pressure. Admittedly, if the baby is going to be strapped in, nursing will be hard, so consider a bottle. (When it comes to tips for getting your toddler to sleep on a plane , we've got those too.)

If you have a bassinet or plan to have the baby in a Bjorn for most of the flight, they'll need to come out and be strapped into their seat or held on your lap during takeoff and landing. Become friendly with your flight attendants, because you may need their help (and patience) more than usual from here on out (that said, they're often happy to help with things like warm water for a bottle).

This also brings us to our favorite controversy: Should you apologize in advance to your fellow seat mates? Sumers says, emphatically, that “there's no reason parents should bring treats for other passengers, or apologize for their baby's behavior." Everyone knows it's hard to control any situation on an airplane, and that you're doing the best you can, Sumers says. People-pleasers may feel the need to do otherwise; ultimately, it's about whichever move creates an on-plane environment that's most comfortable for you.

What if your kid is a seat kicker?

Try changing up your seating chart. Travel journalist Samantha Brown and her husband would book seats in two separate rows, one right in front of the next, and each sit with one of their twins. If one of the kids got fussy—or kicked the seat in front of them—at least it would be a family member they were harassing.

Do babies’ ears hurt when flying?

Ear-popping and discomfort can be an issue for many flyers in general, thanks to pressure changes. To pop our ears, normally, we yawn or swallow to open the Eustachian tube, which equalizes the air pressure in what’s called our “middle ear.” For babies and young kids, these tubes can be relatively narrow, which is why you might hear crying during the first or last few minutes of the flight. If they are old enough to understand, ensure that they know the pain is only temporary, and allow a few minutes for the tubes to open up. To help ease lasting ear pain, Yamini Durani, MD tells Nemours, have your children stay awake for takeoff and landing (during sleep, they won’t swallow as often, so the air pressure might be more difficult to equalize), and give them a bottle or pacifier, or breastfeed—just make sure the baby is sitting upright when drinking. For precautionary measures, bring along medicine, such as a decongestant or antihistamine, for your child to take just in case.

Upon arrival

Many parents worry about the impact of jet lag on children when flying long distances. If you're taking a transatlantic flight (say, New York to Paris ), the red-eye is a godsend and the easiest way to ward off jet lag . To start: Your baby will be more inclined to sleep through the flight. Once you land, consider not getting on local time. Yes, you'll all sleep in later and start your day later, but you can keep the baby out later, rather than having to commit to your hotel room by 6:30 p.m. every night, and the re-entry back home goes a bit smoother because you never really got off your schedule. There's also something special about being able to take your baby to the Louvre at 8 p.m. on a Friday.

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11 Resources Parents Should Know About When They Fly With Kids

Senior Reporter, HuffPost Life

Flying with kids can be... logistically challenging, to say the least.

It’s no wonder parents look exhausted as they wrangle children, strollers, luggage and snacks through security lines and crowded terminals. And then there’s the matter of keeping squirmy kids entertained and fed during the hours on the plane.

Fortunately, there are amenities, special dispensations and other resources available to families flying with children. With assistance from parents and travel experts, we’ve outlined 11 below. Some might seem obvious, and others may be less familiar to the average flyer, but they’ll all hopefully make life a little easier during an ordeal no one looks forward to.

An extra carry-on

“A diaper bag generally travels free, regardless of what type of ticket you booked,” said Willis Orlando , a dad and manager of travel operations at Going, a flight alert service.

Many airlines, including JetBlue and Spirit , allow parents traveling with babies to bring a diaper bag on board in addition to the standard carry-on and personal item. Delta doesn’t make that concession, but it does allow parents the addition of a “breast pump and associated cooler bag” to their carry-on bags.

Parents can look up the specific policies on their airline’s website to confirm what they’re able to carry on with them.

Bassinets for babies

“For very small babies, some airlines offer basinets in some rows ― generally the front of each department in the cabin, usually on larger jets,” Orlando said.

To make use of a bassinet, check which airlines and types of planes offer this amenity, and which seats to book. Try to book early and call customer service to confirm access, as there are usually a limited number.

Kid-friendly meals and snacks

“Some airlines have kid-friendly snacks and even menus if you order in advance,” noted Bruna Fava , a mom who shares tips for traveling with children on her popular TikTok account.

Check in advance if your airline has meal and snack options geared toward children. Either way, it’s a good idea to pack snacks for your child in your carry-on bag just in case that option isn’t available on your flight.

Special in-flight toys and activity kits

“Some airlines carry wings, badges or stickers on board, or things like trading cards, giving kids a special treat and a souvenir from their flight,” said David Slotnick , a dad and senior aviation reporter at The Points Guy. “Just ask a flight attendant during the flight.”

United Airlines, Singapore Airlines and Emirates are among the carriers that offer activity kits and toys to keep children entertained on board.

Airline miles for kids

As soon as your child starts flying in their own seat, they can start earning frequent flyer miles.

That’s why parents should enroll their little ones in airline loyalty programs to allow them to accumulate miles and points that essentially translate to free money for travel as they get older. Most major air carriers don’t let miles expire anymore, so kids can still cash in on them years down the line.

Early boarding

“Almost every airline gives families with young children priority boarding,” Orlando said. “This is somewhat of a hack for folks who want to book the cheapest basic economy tickets but don’t want to board last. Show up early enough and listen ― you’ll be among the first on the plane.”

Early boarding gives families extra time and space to get settled before most of the other passengers board.

“This can also be helpful if you need to stow a diaper bag or lunch box in the overhead compartment near adjacent to your row,” Slotnick noted.

However, if you’re traveling with energetic older kids and aren’t particularly concerned about bin location and space, you might be better off waiting to board until closer to the end. Or at least, you might let one parent board and get things situated, while the other supervises the children as they burn off a little energy and explore the gate area before they have to sit still for hours.

Gate-checking for strollers and car seats

“Most airlines will let you gate-check strollers and car seats for free, and can usually return them to you on the jet bridge instead of at baggage claim, meaning you can still use the stroller to walk through the airport,” Slotnick said.

Different airlines and airports might have different rules, however, so be prepared in case you have to check your stroller before you go through security.

“Make sure to ask when you check in for your flight and upon boarding the aircraft where you need to pick up your stroller,” said Eric Napoli , vice president of legal strategy at AirHelp. “In many airports there are strollers for loan in case you must check it beforehand.”

Free lap seating

“For children under two years old, children can travel in their parent’s lap free of charge,” Napoli noted. “Depending on the country, different taxes or additional security rules may apply ― like whether there needs to be an additional seat belt.”

Not every airline offers this, but it’s very common in the U.S. And the taxes you have to pay for a lap infant on an international flight are usually relatively low.

Still, the American Academy of Pediatrics , the Federal Aviation Administration and the National Transportation Safety Board all strongly recommend buying an airplane safety seat for babies and toddlers, and using a proper child restraint system to protect little ones from the dangers of turbulence and other in-flight risks.

“Keep in mind that there are safety considerations, since your baby won’t be secured to a seat during takeoff, landing and turbulence,” Slotnick said. “But every study shows traveling with a lap-infant is magnitudes safer than other modes of transportation , such as driving.”

There are other reasons why parents might not choose the free lap option as well.

“This works well for some parents and some kids at some ages, but not others, so you have to be sure to think carefully about whether it’s a good option for you,” Slotnick said. “When my son was an infant, for instance, this was great ― he’d happily hang out, drink a bottle, and nap in our arms. Once he reached about a year old and was crawling and walking, he became much less willing to sit still unless he was buckled into a car seat, so bringing him in lap was only doable if it was an extremely short flight.”

Adjacent seats

“After two years old, make sure you check what seats you have been assigned, because airlines will often automatically assign non-adjacent seats to family members,” Napoli said. “When this happens, please don’t fall for the trap and purchase seats so that you are sitting next to your children. Children should be seated with their parents at no additional charge.”

In this instance, he advised calling the airline to see if they can rearrange your seating, or if additional seats will become available. Even if your whole family can’t sit together, the airline might be able to ensure that any children are next to adult family members.

“Alternatively, once you have boarded, the flight crew will assist you in making sure a child is not seated without a parent,” Napoli said. “But for peace of mind, contact the airline beforehand.”

And if you want to avoid uncertainty, consider flying with an airline that guarantees no-fee family seating .

Exemptions at security

“Parents can generally take breast milk, ice packs, and coolers through security with no issue,” Orlando said.

Over the years, there have been highly publicized incidents of breastfeeding parents being forced to ditch their milk or freezer packs at airport security. But Transportation Security Administration guidelines clearly state that “formula, breast milk, toddler drinks and baby/toddler food (to include puree pouches) in quantities greater than 3.4 ounces or 100 milliliters are allowed in carry-on baggage and do not need to fit within a quart-sized bag.”

The policy also notes these exemptions apply to parents traveling with or without their children. For a smooth experience, parents should inform a TSA officer at the start of the screening process that they are traveling with these items, and remove them for separate screening. Try to pack formula and breast milk in clear, translucent bottles, rather than plastic bags or pouches, for easier screening.

“Many airports also offer priority security lanes for families,” Orlando said. “Always ask, it makes a huge difference.”

Help from friendly flight attendants

The primary job of a flight attendant is to ensure all passengers are safe, both in the air and on the ground. Still, many will take a special interest in the little ones traveling on their routes ― even offering to hold babies for a few minutes to give parents a break.

“Definitely ask for help if you need it!” Fava urged. “Flight attendants are usually great with kids.”

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In 2022, several airports in the United Kingdom were criticized by the British Civil Aviation Authority (CAA) for their unacceptable treatment of travelers with disabilities, including those with autism spectrum disorder (ASD). In November 2022, luxury travel company specialists Ocean Holidays published a survey that revealed that one in ten passengers would rather stay home than go on vacation.

Air travel can be stressful enough for people without disabilities and, especially now, following the increased airport security after 9/11, and while it can be difficult for people with limited mobility, it can be just as difficult for people with mental conditions like autism.

Airports in the United States are aware that some people suffer from neurodevelopmental disorders and are working hard to make sure airport workers understand how difficult it can be for some people and how they can help.

What is autism spectrum disorder (ASD)?

More commonly referred to as autism, it is a neurodevelopmental disorder that inhibits them from communicating with others in a sociably acceptable way. Besides communication with others, autism restricts a person's ability to adapt to everyday situations. People with autism tend to stick to a routine and do not like any changes that upset the pattern of their daily lives.

People with autism are not equal, with some displaying many symptoms while others have learned how to hide their social anxieties.

Signs that your young child may have autism include the following:

• Not responding when you call their name
• Avoiding all eye contact
• Become upset if they do not like a particular smell, taste, or sound
• Staying silent for an extended period
• Repetitive hand movements or body rocking
• Constantly repeating the same phrases over and over again

How American Airlines Helps Nervous Flyers And Children With Autism Prepare For Travel

The carrier first launched the scheme in 2014.

Signs of autism in older children include:

• The inability to understand what others are thinking or feeling
• Liking daily routines and getting upset if it changes
• Getting upset when asked to do something
• Preferring to be alone rather than make friends with other children
• Difficulty in expressing how they feel
• Taking everything said literally and the inability to understand sarcasm

Autism is not just a child learning development disorder, with the Atlanta, Georgia-headquartered Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) publishing a study in 2017 that estimated that 5,437,988 (2.21%) adults in the United States have autism and perhaps many thousands more who have not yet been diagnosed.

Adults with autism often display the following characteristics:

• Anxiety in certain social situations
• Finding it hard to make friends
• Difficulty in talking about how they feel
• Seeming blunt, rude, or not interested without meaning to be
• Having a daily routine and getting upset if it changes
• Not understanding social rules, such as not talking over other people when they are speaking
• Avoiding eye contact
• Getting too close to people or becoming upset if someone gets too close to them
• Have an obsession with certain subjects or activities
• Liking to meticulously plan things carefully before doing them

Why airports are stressful places for people with autism

Looking at the above symptoms, you can easily understand how airports and air travel can be challenging times for people who have autism. Just arriving at the airport and being immersed in hundreds of people is stressful enough.

Because some airlines do not allow you to check in online because of visa or security issues, having to wait in line with people very close to you can be upsetting for people who have autism. Add to this all the lights and verbal announcements, and it's no wonder autistic people get anxious.

Security is one of the most challenging parts of the airport experience. Having your belongings pass through an X-ray machine while walking through a metal detector is unpleasant. Also, because autism is a hidden disability, people with autism are often flagged by Transportation Security Administration (TSA) agents. A lack of eye contact, slow movements, and a tendency not to talk can be easily misinterpreted as suspicious behavior.

The departure area and gate

Once you pass security, you must battle the crowds and go to the gate from which your flight departs. If seats are available at the gate, you sit with dozens of other people before lining up again to board the plane. It is easy to see how this can be difficult for people with autism.

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Airports are learning to help people with autism

In recent years, airports have become more autism-friendly, thanks in part to the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA), autism-friendly. Airport employees, airline staff, and TSA agents have all received special training to assist people with autism and other hidden disabilities. They are taught that when dealing with people with autism, they need to communicate in a friendly way and that the person they are dealing with may need extra time and support. Some airports even have unique sensory rooms that allow people to escape from all the hustle and bustle and noise you have at a busy airport.

When traveling by air, notify the airline 48 hours before your departure that you have autism and need assistance. Depending on your needs, the airport will assign a member of staff to help you through airport security and escort you to the gate and onto the aircraft before other passengers board. By notifying the airline of your special needs, the crew will also be aware of your autism and help in any way they can.

The Hidden Sunflower Lanyard

Many airports in the USA, like Dallas Fort Worth International Airport (DFW), have become members of the Hidden Sunflower scheme, a charitable company created to help people with hidden disabilities navigate and find help in public places.

The company slogan is "just because you can't see it, doesn't mean it is not there." A couple of weeks before you travel, visit https://www.hdsunflower.com and request a hidden sunflower lanyard. By wearing the lanyard when traveling airport, airline, and TSA staff will know you need special assistance without having to communicate with anyone.

When speaking about joining the Hidden Sunflower program in an airport statement , DFW Airport's Executive Vice President for Administration, Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Maruchy Cantu said:

"DFW is committed to elevating and personalizing the customer experience for every traveler, and this program will help us provide a more inclusive, understanding, and enjoyable experience for those who need a little extra help at the airport. One in six of the world's population experiences some form of disability, and DFW is committed to ensuring all our guests have access to the same exceptional travel experience regardless of physical or cognitive abilities. We are proud to offer this program and further extend the Texas spirit of hospitality and understanding."

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